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Death bureaucracy
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When my father died - he was a victim of a violent crime - me and my family went through hell. But, from all the bad things, the memories from the funeral arrangements still linger in my thoughts.…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Angela Schafer Dec 7, 2021.

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Angela Schafer replied to Luís Silva's discussion Death bureaucracy
"I am so sorry for your loss, and for the trauma you went through. I felt the same way with my mother's death--I kept feeling like there should be an adult to come get things done, then I realized that the adult was me. Ugh, I just wanted…"
Dec 7, 2021
V. R. replied to Luís Silva's discussion Death bureaucracy
"Hello Luis, Yes, I understand you completely. When I lost my husband suddenly from a heart attack, my shock was so great that I just couldn't do anything, I was unable to make decisions, didn't understand what people were asking me, as if…"
Dec 7, 2021
Luís Silva posted a discussion

Death bureaucracy

When my father died - he was a victim of a violent crime - me and my family went through hell. But, from all the bad things, the memories from the funeral arrangements still linger in my thoughts. The bureaucracies: my father's siblings discussing if he should be buried with their parents, the "open coffin" decisions...etc.I'm not sure if I resent any of the options we made, but it's only me that comes back to these death bureaucracies? Does anyone also have similar experiences? It seems so…See More
Dec 2, 2021
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I work as a science copywriter.
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I lost my father to a violent crime.

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