Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Don't grieve alone.
-
Ganny
- Female
- The best part of the world
- United States
- Share
- Share on Twitter
- Share on Facebook
- Blog Posts (1)
- Discussions (4)
- Events
- Groups
- Photos
- Photo Albums
- Videos
Ganny's Page
Gifts Received
Ganny has not received any gifts yet
Latest Activity
I went to grief counseling yesterday. I was hoping for more out of it...but the one thing I did get out of it is this. This happened to my son for a reason.. He's dead for a reason which I may never understand...and now now when I ask that big quest…
What ever you do dont stop trying to contact your granddaughter. Stop by their house when you know she is there. send her flowers when you know she is home,make sure they are delivered on time, make sure a big card is facing them when they arrive wi…
Yes i agree Lisa... I already said once in anger Why would God let her take up space on this earth and take my son who was a good person and a loving Father. I've had to take that back but the hurt can turn to anger really fast. At the funeral home…
I feel for you. Oh God how i feel for you. My sons wife has made me feel so terrible. She let me know that my name was not on anything and her name was the only name on everything and i could not do anything. I told her my name was on his birth cert…
And not to mention that my son's wife has deleted me from his facebook and myspace page. Pure evil spewing from her fingertips. I'm trying hard not to let hate get into my heart. I'm praying for her.
My son died November 28, 2009. He was 37, and a diabetic. He has a daughter 10. Both were so important to me. His wife won't let me see my grandaughter or talk to her... she won't even answer the phone. So this means my grandaughter and I ware suffe…
My son died November 28th, 2009.. he was 37. Because he was 37 didn't stop me from loving him as if he was my baby because that's what he was to me, my child, my son, my baby. No matter how old, how big, or where he went in life, to me he was my bab…
I feel the same way...I go off alone, in my bedroom, close the door, and cry alone.
Your story is different to my present crisis. But at one time, I felt what you're feeling. After my Mom was gone, I was so empty I asked "What now." All of my time had been filled with caring for and loving her. Then she was gone. This great big hol…
My son died November 28th, autopsy results aren't back yet, Metabolic STudies is holding things up.. it takes so long to do those things. He was 37, my only child. I understand your grief....no words can make this better, for there are no magic word…
Ganny's Blog
When it hurts the most
My son died November 28, 2009. He was 37, and a diabetic. He has a daughter 10. Both were so important to me. His wife won't let me see my grandaughter or talk to her... she won't even answer the phone. So this means my grandaughter and I are suffering and grieving two losses.
This past week I had a very rough day, I wanted to talk to my son so badly....so badly it was overpowering. All I could do was cry, sit with my mouth open with tears running down my face, weeping from the soul. Last night… Continue
This past week I had a very rough day, I wanted to talk to my son so badly....so badly it was overpowering. All I could do was cry, sit with my mouth open with tears running down my face, weeping from the soul. Last night… Continue
Posted on January 8, 2010 at 11:30am — 4 Comments
Comment Wall (2 comments)
- At 3:08pm on December 29, 2009,
Ganny said…
- Laura, my son was my only child. I don't think the words have been written or created that would adequately describe the agony in the soul, the huge loss felt. I think only Jesus Christ could possible understand or another who has felt the same.
- At 8:49am on December 29, 2009,
Laura Villarreal said…
- Ganny, there are no words to express my condolences on the loss of your son. My 33 year old daughter (and only child) died on May 25, 2009 and I can find no words to describe the pain and loneliness caused by her death. I too felt I could not go on...how does a mother continue living after the death of a child? I have found grieving to be very painful and confusing. We all grieve differently and in our own time. I also keep a journal and during this first few months found myself writing in it daily...I don't write so much these days. The members on this website have provided friendship and guidance as we all share the bond of grief.
Take care and let us know how you are doing.
Laura
Groups
-
I love my Dad.
80 members
-
Traumatic, Sudden Loss
58 members
-
Losing Someone to Cancer
57 members
-
Missing my Son or Daug…
49 members
-
I miss my Mom!
48 members
-
Multiple Losses Group
31 members
-
I Miss My Parent(s)
22 members
-
Tattoo Memorial
18 members
-
Caylee Marie Anthony
18 members
-
Lost Without My Mom
16 members
-
mY sOuLmAtE, mY bEsTfRiE…
15 members
-
Orphaned Adults
9 members
-
for loved ones who have…
9 members
-
Missing Michael Jackson
5 members
-
Losing a Sister
5 members
Latest Activity
Hi Gail, Thank you for all your kindness and support. I’m sorry for the misunderstanding, they don’t live here anymore, they moved a year ago after a long four month stay to one of the sunshine states but now the grieving just seems too much at time…
I CAN HEAR YOU WHISPERIn the morningsI reserve my drive timeTo say hello to youAnd to feel you surround me With your violet eddy of emotions.In the beginning, a hundred years ago (or was it yesterday?),My trips to town were for crying,For screaming,…
I can see the kindness in your grandfather's eyes. I am so sorry for your loss! I lost my mom on Jan 22 so we are in the same boat. She was my best friend and the person I counted on most in life and I am married if that tells you something. She and…
At the end of the first week, I visit my sister for a couple of days. I actually look forward to the drive. It’s just me and Brodie safe in my car for three hours. Nothing I can do about anything except keep my mind on the music, which I play loudly…
Hi Nancy,
One day at a time is very good advice and I have heard to do everything on my own timetable as everyone is unique, the pain is the same for all of us, but we are all individuals so I know you are right, but there are a few things I'm tryin…
Anna - I'm so sorry for your loss - I'm so sorry little Kai never got more time with you.
My daughter Meshael was taking steroids for a long time - she had a terminal genetic disorder and although the steroids gave her a little more strength they di…
Hi Racer Girl :o)
I am so sorry that your son and daughter in law are such a selfish pair, I could almost understand their own need to isolate themselves but to isolate your Grandchildren from you- in your own house is completely heartless.
And no,…
Suzanne,
One day at a time is the best advice someone gave me and I pass it along to you. The othe piece of adive is to do everything on your time table; what works for you is what you should do. Such things as taking off your wedding rings or remov…
I don’t what category I belong in, I know I miss my son, but my loss isn’t a grieving of death loss, it’s a grieving of the living loss. You see, I am grieving over the loss of my son and my grandchildren although they are still of this world. The r…
For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.
Dear Nancy,
I really would love to hear about what you learned about coping. It would be much appreciated. I know that here on these grief sites as I go online to others as well and I do get support from those who understand. I am fortunate that I h…
My ex husband passed away about 12 years after we were divorced. I think I felt that maybe I was not entitled to grieve as he was no longer my husband. I was devasted by his death as he had been sick for a while but did not tell his family or friend…
I know exactly what you are saying. Most people think you should be able to move on so quickly. Everyone has to take it at their own pace and the worse thing someone can do is not recognize your grief. I am new to this site.
My husband passed away i…
Useful Links
How to Write an Obituary How to Write a Eulogy Find A Grave Twinless Twins Dead or Alive Hospice My Loving Tribute Writing through Cancer
Healing Grief Support
One year of writing and healing at a glance
View my page on Hospice Community Forum Your donations benefit the entire community.
Visit My Loving Tribute
Healing Grief Support
One year of writing and healing at a glance
View my page on Hospice Community Forum Your donations benefit the entire community.
Visit My Loving Tribute
FLOWER.COM - leading online florist since 1996
Books
To One In Sorrow
Let me come in where you are weeping, friend,
And let me take your hand.
I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, can understand.
Let me come in--I would be very still beside you in your grief;
I would not bid you cease your weeping, friend,
Tears bring relief. Let me come in--and hold your hand,
For I have known a sorrow such as yours, And understand.
-Grace Noll Crowell
And let me take your hand.
I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, can understand.
Let me come in--I would be very still beside you in your grief;
I would not bid you cease your weeping, friend,
Tears bring relief. Let me come in--and hold your hand,
For I have known a sorrow such as yours, And understand.
-Grace Noll Crowell
The Light Beyond
Don't make hasty decisions after the death of a loved one
Hi, I wonder if you could advise people not to do anything hasty after the sudden death of a loved one. My son committed suicide about 4 years ago and in my shock and grief I made some very foolish decisions which could cost me my home. At the time of my son's death one of his friends was living with us and had been a part of our family for nearly 7 years. After...Living your life backwards
Ben's first duty as a new pastor was to conduct a funeral service for Albert, a man who had died in his eighties. Since he didn't know the deceased, he invited members of the congregation to say a few kind words about Albert. No one budged. "Many of you knew Albert for years," Ben prompted them. "Surely someone can say something nice." After an uncomfortable pause, a voice from the back of the room said,...Bereavement Overload - Coping With Multiple Losses
How can anyone cope with the death of more than one family member when those deaths occur in a short period of time? What happens to the person who is grieving the death of a loved one, then loses a job, and has to move from their home or apartment because of financial conditions? Multiple losses occur more frequently than most people realize and they can complicate the mourning process. To begin with, it is...7 powerful ways to deal with grief
An interesting article just came in from the singer and songwriter Barbara Lewis, and I though it was so helpful to those coping with the loss of a loved one that I am reproducing it here: As a long-time performer - singer/songwriter - many events from my private life have appeared in songs. When my brother took his own life, and many years later, when my beloved husband of thirty years suddenly died, I brought...How to find the perfect funeral poem
Reading poems at a funeral can provide comfort to those who are suffering from the the loss of a loved one. Poets have the gift of being able to use words to give expression to the most sublime sentiments of the heart, and many of the most famous poets in history have used their talents to write about death and dying. Some poems about death can be dark, with emphasis on the misery of the...Badge
© 2010 Created by Diana Young
