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Hello everyone. I just lost my dad, not even two weeks ago, and I feel like I can't breathe. He was my favorite person in the world and I sometimes question if I can even function without him. Other…Continue

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Started this discussion. Last reply by Liv Oct 12.

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Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone, I know that I haven't posted in a while. And, maybe you thought that it meant that I was doing well. Well unfortunately, that is not true. Since around the weekend before the one-year anniversary of my father's passing,…"
Oct 12
Pam replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi Liv, Movies/TV are a trigger for me as well. I was watching a comedy show recently and the comedian was talking about taking their mother off life support and I began to get anxious and realized why. Toward the end of my mom's life I was…"
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Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone, So, I'd like to tell you all a story today. About two years ago, a movie came out in theaters: Escape Room. I, who had recently been enjoying my fair share of scary movies and thrillers, was really looking forward to going to see…"
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Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Picture your favorite hug in the world. The one that you could stay in forever, and always feel so safe and warm. The one that can hold you and tell you that everything is going to be okay, and you might even get to believe that for a minute. For…"
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Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone, A year ago today was Father's Day. I know that it was technically yesterday, and that yesterday was difficult on it's own too, but I still can't help but to think about my last Father's Day with my dad today…"
Jun 21
Rosie replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"I'm sorry, Liv. You're right it's not fair. Your dad should be there celebrating with you. I'm sorry he's not. <3"
May 4
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hello everyone. Today is my dad's birthday. He would be turning sixty-two.  Being in his sixties, and having a teenager is a little uncommon, and with having a stage four cancer on top of that, there was always the semi-unspoken want for…"
May 3
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone. I took my last final yesterday. It is officially summer for me. It is also my first summer without my dad. Summer is such a broad term for some people. For most kids, it meant no school, but for me, it meant more fun times with my dad.…"
Apr 21
dream moon JO B replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"i no for me it fealss so raww new agan iv loss my mom on mon so num a agn "
Apr 7
bluebird replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"I know what you mean ...the bad stuff sucks without our loved ones here to help us through that stuff, but in its own way the good stuff sucks too, because our loved ones aren't here to share those things with us. I don't know whether or…"
Mar 29
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone. I found out that I got into my major's program today. It's a very fancy combined bachelors/masters program, and it only accepts sixty students a year. To say that I was nervous about it, would be an understatement. I was…"
Mar 29
bluebird replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"I don't understand how anyone's grief can be anything OTHER than "complicated". My husband died 8 years ago, and I feel my grief as strongly now as I did the day he died. The intensity of it tends to be more in punches, rather…"
Mar 27
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Six months ago my world fell apart My world stopped, I'm still waiting for it to start The world still spins, and that's the saddest part Now I'm only left with the shattered pieces of my heart That's not the only thing…"
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Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone. So I think I figured out why I've been so upset lately, other than the obvious. I realized that everything started falling apart about a year ago. That's when my dad really started to decline. I still don't really know…"
Mar 24
Maria Herrera replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi Liv, So sorry to hear about this.  I am in the same boat, some of my friends, do not ask me how I am feeling and some do, but I can not expect them to know how to deal with this HUGE loss.  So I try and not take it personally.  No…"
Mar 22

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I am a freshman in college. I have a lifetime to live.
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I lost my dad September 27, 2020. I feel like I can't breathe without him.
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"Just so you know...

I can't stop grieving just because you believe it is time for me to move on.

I can't stop hurting just because you do not understand the piercing pain in my heart.

I cannot stop my tears from flowing just because they make you uncomfortable.

My heart is not suddenly mended just because you believe that I have grieved long enough.

I will grieve the loss of my loved one for the rest of my life.

Just so you know."

-John Pete

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At 7:35pm on January 20, 2021, Tina said…

Hi Liv.  Thank you.  Your comment really helped and I feel like even though the relationships we had were different we had a lot in common.  The person I loved passed away from cancer too and because of Covid we never got to spend anytime together and I really feel like I missed so much because I couldn't be with him.  It is hard to lose someone and each day my emotions seem to be everywhere.  

At 9:10pm on October 9, 2020, Rosie said…

Hi Liv - I joined this forum two years ago after losing my brother to cancer. I haven't visited the site much since, but I randomly got an e-mail notification about your post that brought me here. I am very sorry to hear about your dad. That sounds like a truly painful experience. Please know that you are not alone in your grief, and you're welcome to message me if you ever want to chat. Take care <3

 
 
 

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