"It's been five months. That's just over 150 days. A day short of twenty-two weeks. My heart has beat roughly 15 million times since my dad's has stopped. How is that even possible? You know what's even worse? It has been over…"
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Hello everyone. I just lost my dad, not even two weeks ago, and I feel like I can't breathe. He was my favorite person in the world and I sometimes question if I can even function without him. Other…Continue
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"Hi! I was so happy to read your post, as I feel the same. What if , could have should have etc. I lost my dad one month ago and it feel like yesterday everyday . I miss him terribly and everything brings me memories and I beg…"
"Liv,
From what you've described, it sounds as though that may have been a visitation dream."
"Hi everyone.
I slept until almost two o'clock in the afternoon today. Why? Because my dad was in my dreams.
He was there, for real, like he was about a year ago. He was healthier. He was happy. He told me that he was doing good. As…"
"Hello,
I lost my sweet dad 19 days ago, and I feel like I can not accept it, I am hoping that he will come back somehow. It hurts so much. His last days were at a hospital and we could not visit him but greatfully we did a in home…"
"Things were supposed to be so different. I was supposed to go away to college and finally go back to being the happy person I once was. My parents kept telling me that things get better after high school. I was counting on it. I needed things to get…"
"Liv,
In my case it is my husband who died, but a lot of the feelings are the same. The death of a loved one is always horribly painful.
Have you considered going to therapy? It's not for everyone, but it does help a lot of people. …"
"I am so sorry for your loss. The dream you mentioned (in which he was healthy) sounds lovely....perhaps it was a real visitation dream? I've read that when we see our dead loved ones in dreams and they appear healthy (and often a bit younger,…"
"Hi everyone.
It has been four months since my dad passed away; One hundred and twenty two days. It's been so long since I've last talked to him, and even longer since I've seen him through a window, and even longer since I last hugged…"
"Liv,
I too lost my dad. It'll be 2 next month, and though we didn't have the best relationship when I was a kid, I still miss him every single day. Things can and will get better, you just have to be willing to accept the pain, first. I…"
"Hi Liv. Thank you. Your comment really helped and I feel like even though the relationships we had were different we had a lot in common. The person I loved passed away from cancer too and because of Covid we never got to spend…"
"Hi everyone, sorry I haven't written in a while. I've needed to express my feelings so many times this week, but somehow I've been at a total loss for words. I guess I should start at the beginning.
A week ago, I moved in to my dorm…"
"Hello everyone.
It's been a while since I've written anything.
What's new? I'm back in school. Just moved back on campus today. Remember my roommate that I've been struggling to act around? Well, she moved out. She…"
"Hello everyone,
It is exactly three months today; Thirteen weeks; Ninety-one days. I don't know how I've lasted this long, how I've managed to survive. I miss my dad so much.
It's been a rough day. I didn't really want to…"
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- I am a freshman in college. I have a lifetime to live.
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- I lost my dad September 27, 2020. I feel like I can't breathe without him.
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"The reality is that you will grieve forever.
You will not 'get over' the loss of a loved one;
you will learn to live with with it.
You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered.
You will be whole again but you will never be the same.
Nor should you be the same nor would you want to."
-Elisabeth Kubler-Rose
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- At 7:35pm on January 20, 2021,
Tina said…
Hi Liv. Thank you. Your comment really helped and I feel like even though the relationships we had were different we had a lot in common. The person I loved passed away from cancer too and because of Covid we never got to spend anytime together and I really feel like I missed so much because I couldn't be with him. It is hard to lose someone and each day my emotions seem to be everywhere.
- At 9:10pm on October 9, 2020,
Rosie said…
Hi Liv - I joined this forum two years ago after losing my brother to cancer. I haven't visited the site much since, but I randomly got an e-mail notification about your post that brought me here. I am very sorry to hear about your dad. That sounds like a truly painful experience. Please know that you are not alone in your grief, and you're welcome to message me if you ever want to chat. Take care <3
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