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New to this severity of grief
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Hello everyone. I just lost my dad, not even two weeks ago, and I feel like I can't breathe. He was my favorite person in the world and I sometimes question if I can even function without him. Other…Continue

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Rosie replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi Liv, What a beautiful tribute to your amazing father. I found it amusing when you explained his love for High School Musical, and I think that story helped showcase his fun personality. You really captured your sweet relationship and your love…"
Thursday
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Thank you so much."
Thursday
Joy replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Liv, your speech was very moving and the love you have for your dad shines through. I know this time is so hard for you. I’m still struggling and my mom has been gone 3-1/2 years. I’m just glad you’re doing as well as you can in…"
Thursday
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi guys. Today I delivered my speech, honoring my dad for my Public Speaking class. It was nice to share some of my favorite things about my dad. Afterwards, I got a private chat message complimenting my speech from someone who lost his dad eight…"
Wednesday
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone, I've just been having a really hard time lately, and especially today. It was Thanksgiving, then it was two months, and now today marks nine weeks. I know I shift from months to weeks to days for counting, but who cares? I pretty…"
Monday
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone, I hope you all have a nice thanksgiving holiday. This is my first major holiday without my dad. I miss him so much. I'm trying to keep busy by making a huge feast for only three people, but it's not enough. It's hard not…"
Nov 26
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone, I just wanted to talk about a few things that happened yesterday. First, my cousin texted me out of the blue yesterday. She too lost her dad to cancer at a little bit younger age, only a few years ago. In a twisted way, it is kind of…"
Nov 22
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone, Today in my public speaking class, we had to come up with an impromptu short speech about an object of significance for us. I, of course, had way too many objects that remind me of my dad to choose from, (I was already wearing one of…"
Nov 18
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Nov 18
dream moon JO B replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"so sorry o yore loss  i no202020 bean bad for evry 1  not bean abl 2 sea famly finds ect"
Nov 17
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi guys, So, I don't know if I've talked about this yet, but I have this notebook that I've been writing in since my dad passed away. It has song lyrics and poems that really spoke to me, and that describe the terrible feelings of…"
Nov 17
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hey everyone. Yesterday was seven weeks. I didn't really feel like writing about it. I was pretty much in between constant crying and sobbing, and trying not to think about it at all. Anyways, today I left my dorm room and someone complimented…"
Nov 16
Rosie replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi Liv, Wow. You absolutely have the right to act however you want in your space. Your dad died only weeks ago, and to be honest, I don't think she could ever fathom or understand the pain you're going through. I don't think you…"
Nov 14
Liv replied to KJ P Alta's discussion I lost my cousin to suicide
"Hi KJ, I wish I could help you, but I too am new to this. I lost someone very close to me about seven weeks ago. It sucks, and for that I'm sorry. The only thing I can recommend is to continue writing, or talking to others. Don't keep your…"
Nov 13
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone. My roommate just told me that I have been killing her happiness, not exactly in those words. She says, for example, that in the morning, when she wakes up in the morning, all happiness and sunshine, and says "good morning" I…"
Nov 13
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi, Sorry for the long story yesterday. I just think I needed to type it all out. If you can believe it, that was the shorter version of how terrible my year has been. Not to even mention the actual act of losing my dad and the few agonizing days…"
Nov 8

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I am a freshman in college. I have a lifetime to live.
About my Loss:
I lost my dad September 27, 2020. I feel like I can't breathe without him.
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"I don't believe time heals everything.

It helps, it does.

After a while, you won't cry about it all the time.

It won't consume your every thought anymore.

You do get better.

You'll laugh.

And smile.

You'll even have a lot of great days.

But it's still there.

You just learn to live with it.

This is how things are now.

So you get used to it.

But,

That doesn't mean it ever goes away.

It's still deep in your soul.

Still makes you cry when you think about it too much

Still stops you in your tracks when something reminds you of it.

You'll have those moments where your heart hurts really bad.

I don't think time heals everything.

Sure it gets better,

But it's a scar that never goes away.

A broken bone that still aches on rainy days."

-Melinda Caroline

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At 9:10pm on October 9, 2020, Rosie said…

Hi Liv - I joined this forum two years ago after losing my brother to cancer. I haven't visited the site much since, but I randomly got an e-mail notification about your post that brought me here. I am very sorry to hear about your dad. That sounds like a truly painful experience. Please know that you are not alone in your grief, and you're welcome to message me if you ever want to chat. Take care <3

 
 
 

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Rosie replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi Liv, What a beautiful tribute to your amazing father. I found it amusing when you explained his love for High School Musical, and I think that story helped showcase his fun personality. You really captured your sweet relationship and your love…"
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Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Thank you so much."
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Joy replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Liv, your speech was very moving and the love you have for your dad shines through. I know this time is so hard for you. I’m still struggling and my mom has been gone 3-1/2 years. I’m just glad you’re doing as well as you can in…"
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