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Last Breaths and Betty Macham are now friends
May 12, 2022
Betty Macham left a comment for Last Breaths
"I am so grateful to have the support of this group. This is a very difficult time for me the hardest loss I have ever experienced. It’s only been three weeks and I am allowing myself to feel all the pain, crying ,screaming. I don’t want…"
May 11, 2022
Last Breaths left a comment for Last Breaths
"I am wondering where all the members went? Hoping to connect with others who are grieving spousal loss also, and support one another here. It is much harder to do it on our own. Off-line friends may now find it difficult to be around us due to…"
May 11, 2022
Last Breaths left a comment for Brian K Masterson
"Hi Brian, I extend my genuine concerns to you, I share similar pain. Going out is also very difficult for me, it seems like I really do not want to engage in life anymore. In the beginning, I used to go out  at night.... it seems to be little…"
May 11, 2022
Last Breaths left a comment for Betty Macham
"Betty, I feel your pain. And please keep being here, one day at a time. It is extremely gut wrenching, and cry out loud if you need to.....I have the same loss as you..... still very distraught. I continue speaking to him daily in my prayers. If you…"
May 11, 2022
Last Breaths left a comment for CJ
"Hi CJ, I am living in Toronto too. Would you like to connect online? Please check out my page to have some sense who I am. Regards. Last Breath"
May 9, 2022
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bluebird and Last Breaths are now friends
Apr 25, 2022
Last Breaths is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Apr 24, 2022

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About Me:
Since my loss, I have found myself to be a traveller, floating through this temporary place, earth …. for a very finite time…
About my Loss:
I lost my love, soulmate, best friend and life partner of over 25 years to cancer. Our lives are shattered. Initially, I was isolated, feeling utterly alone. Soon my despair takes a further descent when it appears even in the subconscious mind of friends, people touched by death like us are to be suppressed, obscured; or better yet, buried together with our deceased mates. This may sound rather shocking to some. Yet if we were to be honest, this cruel jungle mentality is somehow reflected in those sudden insensitive comments, and long silences we received from our friends or even family members.

Only after many months later, I came to realize that those who have never experienced the loss of their beloved spouse cannot possibly understand such deep pain and loneliness. This includes grief therapists. It is hard to fathom for them, that there is no moving on for us here, at this liminal space, barely breathing …. for Love Never Dies.

So yes, I want to be brutally honest…. with myself, and you …. possibly my new tribe here. To break our isolation, and distraught, I hope we can join our hearts and mind together, to comfort, encourage and help each other, spiritually, emotionally and practically.

For now, I dedicate this to you:
May you be well, and loved by the Divine …and that we may all find our paths to healing.

I am truly sorry we are meeting here, yet thank you.

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At 9:48pm on May 12, 2024, Erica Woodward said…

I need to have a word privately,Could you please get back to me on ( mrs.ericaw1@gmail.com)Thanks.

At 10:05pm on May 11, 2022, Betty Macham said…

I am so grateful to have the support of this group. This is a very difficult time for me the hardest loss I have ever experienced. It’s only been three weeks and I am allowing myself to feel all the pain, crying ,screaming. I don’t want people around right now I need time to process all that has happened. Such deep sadness, I am heartbroken 

At 3:33pm on May 11, 2022, Last Breaths said…

I am wondering where all the members went? Hoping to connect with others who are grieving spousal loss also, and support one another here. It is much harder to do it on our own. Off-line friends may now find it difficult to be around us due to avoidance of death and our deep sorrow. Let's connect and support each other here. Take care at the meantime.

 
 
 

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