hi, I am so so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine how difficult it must’ve been to sit there for the funeral and have people talking about him that did not really even know him. No one‘s gonna call me when he passes…"
This is for anyone who has lost their lover to death and you were the other woman/other man in their life. We have to grieve in silence. I can't find any support groups and feel like I'm the only one going through this situationSee More
"I’m so sorry you are losing him. Your story is so similar to mine. I’m new to this site and very grateful I found it. Grieving is hard enough but when no one around you knows how heartbroken you are it came be so isolating.…"
Feb 3, 2022
Kimberly Lacey is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
43yr old mother of 3 I’m a stay at home mom. I live in Ohio but spend lots of time traveling with my husband who is a truck driver.
About my Loss:
My daughters dad has been the love of my life since I was 17yrs old. He died suddenly of Covid it was very quick and I think I’m still in shock. We had our ups and downs but always stayed in love with each other. We had times we didn’t speak and both of us had relationships but as soon as we saw each other it was like no time had passed at all. A week before we lost him I was telling our daughter that even though we weren’t together we still had a successful relationship because we always said I love you and we were always there for one another. I’ve never known adulthood without this man in the world and it’s still unbearable to think of not hearing his smooth voice or looking into his eyes. When he died we had just went on our first date after a long absence from each other. It was amazing and I still can’t settle in my head or my heart if I’m better having had that last night with him or not. We were planning a 2nd date that will never happen. I had to sit in that church and listen to some random non factor talk about how special they were to each other. 25 years I loved this man and he loved me and no one will ever know how much.
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hi, I am so so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine how difficult it must’ve been to sit there for the funeral and have people talking about him that did not really even know him. No one‘s gonna call me when he passes away. I keep thinking how it’s not fair that I won’t be able to be there but maybe it’s for the best. No one had the opportunity to know them as Completely as we did. That’s something to hold on to.
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