hi, I am so so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine how difficult it must’ve been to sit there for the funeral and have people talking about him that did not really even know him. No one‘s gonna call me when he passes…"
"I’m so sorry you are losing him. Your story is so similar to mine. I’m new to this site and very grateful I found it. Grieving is hard enough but when no one around you knows how heartbroken you are it came be so isolating.…"
"Hi, thank you for being here. I’m so glad I found this site. My heart is aching and everything around me just seems to be a blur. I have managed to keep our secret for the majority of my life so for some reason sharing it almost feels like a…"
This is for anyone who has lost their lover to death and you were the other woman/other man in their life. We have to grieve in silence. I can't find any support groups and feel like I'm the only one going through this situationSee More
Our love and our relationship have been our secret for the past 25 years. No one has ever known. We are both in our third marriage but we have never been able to let go…..we have never wanted to. Over the years we’ve lost contact but we always seem to find each other again. He even moved across state lines just so we could be closer together. He loves his wife and I love my husband but this has always been something different….. something unshakable. He called me yesterday to tell me he has stage four cancer. I’m not even sure what he said after that. I have loved him for more than half my life and I can’t imagine this world without him in it. There’s never been a A written letter between us, not a single photograph….only moments that have created memories I’ll cherish forever. When he’s gone I’ll have no one left to share these memories with they will be mine alone. They’ll be no one to share my grief with it will be mine alone.
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I’m so sorry you are losing him. Your story is so similar to mine. I’m new to this site and very grateful I found it. Grieving is hard enough but when no one around you knows how heartbroken you are it came be so isolating. I’m glad we…"
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I don't want to live without him, and I just don't feel that will ever change. So, it all seems so futile to go through this every day. "
"Thanks, Drewtoo. It sucks, and I'm sorry you are having to deal with it too. NYE is our anniversary (not our wedding anniversary, our "officially became a couple" anniversary), so it was always special to us. Since he died…"