Assumptions
An assumption is an unexamined belief: what is thought to be true without ever really realizing that we think in that way. For better or worse, understanding starts with entertaining the idea that something is true. Truly profound thoughts generally come to light from the relaxation of these (flawed) assumptions. This is where I find myself today...Perhaps, one of the more significant drivers to pushing down the loss and grief at the time of the accident, ignoring it and mindlessly walking…See More
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Julie, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have not lost my spouse or loved one like that, but I lost my son. I did separate from someone who I loved with all my heart. I cried every day. In a situation like yours, it must be really hard! Try to remember that your partner's family are all going through their own pain and dealing the best they can. Try to remember the times you shared and think of what he would want for you. I bet he would want you to go on, cherish his memory but make new ones with your kids and eventually your grandkids. I wish you peace and love, try to just keep going forward....someday things will get easier for both of us. I believe that with all my heart. xoxoox
Dear Julie,
So sorry to hear about you loss, but you have found a group that cares about each other and will listen anytime you need to talk. Grief is a journey that everyone travels in their own way and in their own time.
Still the best medicine is to talk to a trusted friend. Shakespeare wrote in Macbeth: “Give sorrow words; the grief that does not speak whispers the o’er-fraught heart and bids it break.
Please message me anytime. . .
Brenda