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Crying in the Morning
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Hello Everyone,well today is another day for me,  I need a littlie help from you all on a question I have.Ever since the passing of the partner last july. it seem when I wake in the morning the first…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Shani Friedman Jul 31, 2018.

Lossing Spouse
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Hello Everyone,my name is Helen, I just lost my partner of 30 years this July 2,2017 to cervical cancer. Ever since her passing its been  extremely difficult to move on in life, and  the emotional…Continue

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Started this discussion. Last reply by Helen Maez Aug 27, 2017.

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Shani Friedman replied to Helen Maez's discussion Crying in the Morning
"There's definitely nothing wrong with you. As a friend of mine said, you have to just let your emotions out when you need to and without judgment. I've cried in the mornings, evenings, while at the movies, etc. Maybe starting the day with…"
Jul 31, 2018
bluebird replied to Helen Maez's discussion Crying in the Morning
"It's part of the grieving process for many people. The mornings are the worst for me, too, I think because every morning I wake up when I would rather have died in my sleep, and each time I am again hit with the realization that my husband is…"
Mar 25, 2018
Ginger replied to Helen Maez's discussion Crying in the Morning
"No,I think it might be the grieving process because the same happens to me and then I go about the day ,the tears start again and depending on what mood I'm in ,it will bother me that everyone can go about their day as normal and it seems that…"
Mar 23, 2018
Helen Maez replied to Tammy's discussion Loss of a Gay or Lesbian Spouse
"Hello my name is Helen and I recently lost my spouse of 30 years to cervical cancer this july. The grief and pain is the worst I have ever experiences in my entire life.furthermore I just found out that my first love when I came out 30 years ago…"
Sep 15, 2017

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57 years old Latina who live in Southern California and currently going to school to get my degree in Business Administration
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On July 2,2017 I lost my domestic partner of 30 years to cervical cancer.
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When i got married March 25th 2019 was one of the Best days of my life i was marrying the man of my Dreams,My best friend,My soul mate. Even though it was one of the happiest day of my life but it was also a sad day.Because i was marrying the man of my Dreams knowing that i only had a little time left with him. He was diagnosed in December of 2018 of stage 4 lung and kidney cancer that day was one of the worst days of our lives. I thought but when the time came and he took his last breath that…See More
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"Till death do us part", a letter to my husband

How do I begin to thank you for the life you have given me. A life that included 4 loving children, 4 beautiful grandchildren and memories that will last forever.We had more then the romantic love we had when we first met almost 40 years ago. That fades with time. Through the ups and downs, fights and reconciliations, laughter and tears we had something more. We had true love, commitment, trust, and most importantly we had friendship. Since 1975 we have been together to celebrate every…See More
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morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
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"Part 1 Bless you and thanks to each one of you who keep writing about how you feel and how you cope.  I always feel support knowing I am not alone.  What I don't get (and not that any one of us can give it) is the answer to how I can…"
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