Collette Hoag
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  • Hoosick Falls, NY
  • United States
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My name is Collette. I am 21 years old. I am currently attending the University of Phoenix online pursuing an associate's degree in Human Services Management. I am currently unemployed. I love listening to music, shopping, the internet, reading, and spending time with my family, especially my 5 year old neice.
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I have two losses. Five years ago on May 10th, 2005 I lost my mom. She had a routine hysterectomy and ended up have a pulmonary embolism (blood clot in the lungs). She passed away in our house in front of my father, sister, and myself.

Next, on April 16th of this year, I lost my boyfriend in a very sudden car crash. He died instantly when he collided with a delievery box truck. I drove up onto the accident and was the one to provide indentification. I was actually supposed to be in the car with him that morning, but I ended up leaving an hour after he did with a friend. He has only been gone for a little over two months. I loved this man more than anything in the world.

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Having a very hard time

Hello. I'm new to the group and am feeling my way around the site. I lost my mother five years ago and the most recent, and main reason for joining this community, I lost the love of my life and best friend, my boyfriend, Brian. This happen on April 16th of this year so it's only been a little over two months. He hit head-on a delivery box truck and flipped over several times. He died on impact, which helps a little bit because I know he didn't suffer or experience any pain. Still, I'm having a… Continue

Posted on June 28, 2010 at 11:31pm

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At 5:53pm on September 20, 2010, John Bilanchiardini said…
Collette I lost 4 people in recent years . My grandmother, Aunt, Dad and Mom. So I know the pain and anguish you feel. I have lived it. I would like to reach out to you and share and be a caring compassionate good friend. I am a Christian and I know helping others has always been something I do. But I read your story and it touched me. I am so very sorry. I am here to share, John
 
 
 

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Jennifer replied to Robin H's discussion Lost my Partner who wasn't my partner in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"Welcome to the group.  I lost my partner on February 5th this year, so it's still pretty raw for me too.  Reading through your story really touched a chord with me.  Like you, I didn't think I would ever find a group like…"
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An assumption is an unexamined belief: what is thought to be true without ever really realizing that we think in that way. For better or worse, understanding starts with entertaining the idea that something is true.  Truly profound thoughts generally come to light from the relaxation of these (flawed) assumptions.  This is where I find myself today...Perhaps, one of the more significant drivers to pushing down the loss and grief at the time of the accident, ignoring it and mindlessly walking…See More
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