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This is for some of us who have lost someone due to suicide...I miss you Annie!!!
Location: Wheelwright, KY
Members: 27
Latest Activity: Dec 15, 2017
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Suicide....Hard Knowing Thay did it By Their Choice 2 Replies
Suicide is not a choice! It is a desperate last option of someone who feels they can’t take any more pain. I lost my best friend of 20+ years to suicide in 1989, I know the pain and it is hard to…Continue
Started by Mandel Crittendon. Last reply by Sheri H Mar 8, 2015.
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Comment by Brenda Ann on December 6, 2017 at 1:56pm
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t is so difficult to find the "right" words. I want to comfort you but don't know what words might be comforting. The one thing I want to do is to send a (((((HUG))))) the second thing I have learned is to talk to someone that cares. Don't bottle it all up and just suffer.
Talking can be a helpful release. Following the death of all ten of his children, as well as some other personal tragedies, the ancient patriarch Job said: “My soul certainly feels a loathing toward my life. I will give vent to [Hebrew, “loose”] my concern about myself. I will speak in the bitterness of my soul!” (Job 1:2, 18, 19; 10:1) Job could no longer restrain his concern. He needed to let it loose; he had to “speak.” Similarly, the English dramatist Shakespeare wrote in Macbeth: “Give sorrow words; the grief that does not speak whispers the o’er-fraught heart and bids it break.”
I will listen anytime you need me to...
Brenda
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Comment by HelenB on May 3, 2016 at 12:23pm -
See below, I meant bad not ad
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Comment by HelenB on May 3, 2016 at 12:23pm
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Has anyone tried grief therapy and if so, did u have good or ad experiences?
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Comment by Gayle Roache on January 27, 2016 at 5:00pm
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Im new to this group. Not much for talking right now. I like to read everyone's posts. I'm just lost right now
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Comment by Amber Dunnett on August 7, 2013 at 12:32am
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Jarod will be gone 4 years on the 20th of this month and it feels like yesterday. Knowing, he choose to take his life makes my healing harder. At least for me. Anyone feel this way?
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I found my bc who I shared a 16 month daughter with. He killed himself with .45 handgun in the chest. I loved him very much and finding this body was the worst day I ever had.
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Comment by dream moon JO B on May 10, 2013 at 4:09pm
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we lost a friend of th famly ths weak coz he took his own lifee evry body loved him wear we livee
i no i sond horbel person sayn thiss im plesed im not th 1 it fond him i jst wish he cud of told som 1 befor he did it
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Comment by Meghan Eley on January 14, 2013 at 7:18am
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I lost my friend on the 23rd of august 2012. It was completely unexpected, he showed no signs of any depression or mental health issues. He was 26 years old and was a happy go lucky type of guy. It was a shock to hear what he had done and I'm still trying to get past the thought that he thought he couldn't turn to anyone. I feel guilty and angry because I couldn't do anything and that he felt that this was his only way out. I just can't seem to think about him and not cry :(
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Comment by Mecca Aurilia on January 13, 2013 at 12:28am
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I lost my brother sep 23rd of 2012 to suicide
18 year's old.... I'm disconnected from everything :-(
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Comment by Becky Lock Smith on October 29, 2012 at 5:52pm
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I lost my 33 year olod son on Sept 25th of this year. He killed himself
after his marriage fell apart. He had bipolar disorder which was poorly managed, he overdosed on antifreeze and his medications. How does one ever recover from the loss of a loved on by the use of such horrible means? I cry every day.
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Abbie, I am so sorry. This is a good place to talk because everyone here knows what it's like to lose their mom. We know how much it hurts. Every circumstance is different. I don't know what it's like to have lost my mom at 16. I…"
"abbie
my mom died the same way sudden cardiac death, I know exactly how you feel....."
abbie burns commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Its so hard i miss her so much and can't speak to anyone about it"
abbie burns commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"My mum died on a trip with my dad to new york. I already hadn't seen her for 6 days. I'm only 16 and it was a sudden cardiac death"
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Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."I started to compose a blow by blow sequence of events of my loves illness and passing but it became too painful and couldn't continue. Here we share how we are feeling grieving our lost Loves. In reality, most of my underlying…"
"No matter how we express our thoughts, we are all in the same boat together. We just keep waiting for it to sink so we can join our loved ones."
"M Adams,
I totally understand; I detest being around happy families, and especially happy couples. It's not that I want anything bad to happen to them, I definitely do not. It's just that they have what my beloved and I should still have,…"
M Adams commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."usually I find your comments really clear, Linda, so I don’t think it’s not being good with words, more that it’s hard to express these things in words. Actually I couldn’t follow what Joe said either, but it’s…"
"Hello M Adams
Joe explained in his post of how I feel. I am not good with words on explaining things but Joe you said it perfectly. I just want to thank everyone here for sharing their thoughts, as we are all in the same boat together."
Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Speaking for myself, I identify with Linda. My Love left our world and I know it, and accept that she crossed over into another realm of existence and can't come back. I want her back and I live in HELL every day without her. …"
M Adams commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Linda, not sure what you mean here when you say you can accept the loss of your husband but not being able to change it is your whole problem — do you mean not being able to change the fact of the loss, or not being able to change the way it…"
"Hi Morgan,
Like you mentioned in your post, there is no normal in my life. I just take each day as it comes and just wait for death. I can accept that Julian is gone but not being able to change it is my whole problem."
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Hi Haven't been writing recently as have had so much to organize in my life I just haven't had a moment and when I do I am so tired. So grateful to everyone else who continues to write though. I look here daily to read.…"
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Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"They told me that Mom had a heart attack. It happened on the weekend. I had made her breakfast & she seemed fine. I am thankful she was at home & that I was with her, but it hurts so much knowing she is gone. I just…"
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