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Feeling lost and broken 13 Replies

This is my first day on this site. I lost my dad 9 years ago this coming July to suicide. His birthday just past and I just lost a close friend as well. Father’s Day is coming up and I am hurting…Continue

Started by Faith. Last reply by Alma P Aug 4.

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Lost my boyfriend of 7 years to suicide on Oct. 25th 2014! I feel like im dying from the inside out! I want to believe joinging this group and chatting will make me feel a little better. From seeing…Continue

Started by Megan M. Last reply by Hollowed Mar 14, 2016.

Loss of my Husband to suicide 4 Replies

Hello.  I'm new to this site as of today, and I'm struggling more than ever.  My husband passed away to suicide on 10/28/12.  We were married for 5 years.  The holidays are very difficult, but…Continue

Started by Lyndsey. Last reply by Hollowed Mar 14, 2016.

if I just keep telling this same story... maybe I will heal?

I will never forget at 7:39 pm on April 6th, 2015. I was sitting in my nursing class and she told us that we could stretch out legs and I felt my cell phone in my pants pocket vibrating continuously.…Continue

Started by Kerri Fell Jun 8, 2015.

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Comment by krr on April 23, 2010 at 9:16pm
2 weeks ago, my wife chose to take her own life while I was at work and my 18-year old daughter was at school, 1-week after my daughter's birthday. We had been married 19 good and loving years. We are crushed and miss mom so much the agony of her being gone is almost unbearable.
Kevin
Comment by Lilly pizer on April 21, 2010 at 6:32am
My husband was terminally ill with cancer and sufferred for a year, then one day he asked me to go to the grocery store to buy him some tangerines and when I came home, I found him, he had shot himself in the head. I didn't even know he had bought a gun. When I think back even though all the signs were there, I didn't see them. I was sure he was going to get better, he was only 30 years old, our dtr was 8 months old, now she is 11. Eventhough I know its true, it still seems unbelievable after 11 years. I still have questions about it I hope one day will be answered.
Comment by donna henderson on February 10, 2010 at 1:29pm
rachel be there for her that is all you can do, hanging is perhaps one of the most violent and painful ways to die, a part of me still does not believe that my cousin hung himself. But what helps is having friends and family. I too have been down that road and I realize that suicide is not the answer. Life is a gift a very precious gift not meant to be squandered.
Comment by donna henderson on November 4, 2009 at 9:02pm
i think my cousin had many problems including addiction, he also lost his best friend two years ago in a motorcycle accident, they are buried together in the cemetery in an double plot.
Comment by donna henderson on November 1, 2009 at 9:55pm
i dont know what to tell you grandma g, except that your daughter in law needs to talk about it. because holding it in is not healthy. her mother in law needed help but like so many of us who battle mental health issues she was in denial about it. there is nothing that can be said or done to bring them back, and what really pisses me off is when people say that they have gone to a better place. wrong, they should have got help, if my cousin had he might not be sober but at least he would be alive instead of in a box in a cemetary.
Comment by Grandma G on November 1, 2009 at 10:29am
My daughter-in-law's mother took her life Aug 2009, I just don't understand. She never left a note, but it was determined that she took someone elses drugs, it was in her system. She left behind three children, husband of 34 years, 6 wonderful grandchildren, brother and sister, and too many friends to even count. How can someone do this. No one had any idea she planned this. I can't even talk about her unless I cry. How can I help my daughter (daughter-in-law) if when she talks about her mom I start crying. I sometimes feel so mad because she did this, how could she bring such sadness to everyone around. (She had a brother and her mother take their own lives and she had told her whole family that "This has to stop!"). To me she knew the pain she would cause and she still did it. Can any one help me understand.
Comment by Diana, Certified Grief Counselor on October 11, 2009 at 7:50am
My brothers death certificate says suicide. I never believed it. I think he was murdered. But am I in denial?
Comment by donna henderson on October 10, 2009 at 9:10pm
my cousin doug was 24 years old and he went and committed suicide on thursday he hung himself and his friend found him the paramedics tried to revive him but to no avail. this has been the shittiest year of my life.
 

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