In less than twelve months I have lost my mother, grandfather, performed cpr on a friend's father who died in my hands. I recently graduated the police academy and was looking forward to rejoining my wife in Denton where we had decided to make a new start. I was greeted with her request for a divorce. Now I find myself almost back where I started with this whole process. People tell me to get back out there and do things and that things could always be worse but I dread to think what else could happen. Any prayers would be appreciated.

Adam

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Comment by Liz on May 21, 2012 at 5:04pm

Ive learned that "People" that have never ever been through something this horrible never give the best advice, nor do I ever like to listen to them...even though I know they are just trying to help. ...I wont sugar coat it.... It sucks. I personally know this. Nothing is fair about this experience. Yes, time does help a little and as the days pass, you learn to start moving and going on with life, but that doesn't mean it gets easier...it means your learning how to deal. I`m so sorry for the loss of your mother and grandfather and your friend`s father. You have to dig deep and find your inner strength to keep moving. Its of course easier said than done. Hang in there. Sending positive vibes your way.

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