HOW DO I GET THROUGH THIS LONG LASTING terrible pain?

Hi

I have lost my mom heart problems,dad cancer, baby sister anorexia and depression, mother inlaw cancer, best friend who just dropped dead brain aneurysm, another very good friend cancer, and others whom I loved.
I loss my cat (Angel) that i had for 13 years and loved.I have been able to get through these losses with God`s help, and some really good friends. Six years ago my only son decided to push me out of his life and has not spoken to me since.One of his daugthers I saw until she was 4 months and never saw her again. he had another daugther and I have never seen her except a picture.I also have one daugther and she has been in and out of my life. In 2008 my husband became ill and is under" doctors " care this has been very hard also.
Well needless to say I need to share my pain with others and hope to be able to give of myself also.
Sincerely

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Comment by Courtney Rice on February 7, 2010 at 11:34pm
Wow~your story is almost a mirror of mine, though I never had children. (My cats are my kids). How do you do it? Survive so many losses without dying inside? You must be in better physical and emotional shape than I. I can't get out of bed for the most part. People think I'm strong but I'm not. How do I start living again? How do you keep going?

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