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I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
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Hi everyone I’m new to this group and I just couldn’t see myself grieving alone anymore...I just lost my mom on July 1, 2018 and her birthday is in 2 days, I have been extremely upset every since she…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Andrew Evans Sep 9, 2018.

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Andrew Evans replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"As yourself I shared so many happy times with Mam throughout our time together and this will see to enrich our memories of them. GOD bless us one and all."
Sep 9, 2018
Andrew Evans replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"I have lost my dear Mam early hours Wednesday I am heartbroken.Her birthday would have been this coming Tuesday"
Sep 9, 2018
Avi replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Thanks Dennis. Your statement has given a lot of hope to me who wishes that I will be reunited with my mother some day some where. "
Jul 28, 2018
Dennis C. replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"I am so sorry for your loss. I gain strength from the hope we have for the future. I believe that we WILL be reunited with our loved ones. The Bible gives us this promise:  John 5:25 — “Most truly I say to you, the hour is…"
Jul 27, 2018
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Jul 26, 2018
Avi replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Hi Xavier.  This is Avi from India. I lost my mom on 15 May 18 due to Cancer.  I can understand each and every word on your post as she died in front of me in the hospital. More to add to my agony is that I was not near to her when she…"
Jul 26, 2018
Joy replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Xavier, your post touched me in a way that only another grieving person can understand.  Our situations are very silmilar. I cried reading it because I can feel from your words how much you love her.  I love my mama too. We were extremely…"
Jul 25, 2018
Xavier replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Thank you Joy I’m living through a very difficult time in my life right now it seems as if it’s never going to get better but I pray daily and ask God to help me through this. And I understand you where you’re coming from I know…"
Jul 25, 2018
Joy replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Hi Xavier, I’m so sorry you lost your mom. That to me is the worst pain In the world. My mama died last May and I’m not the same person either and will never be. Like you, only God has kept me going. If not for him, I would’ve…"
Jul 24, 2018
Xavier replied to Madeleine's discussion What would you do if you could have your lost loved one back for just five minutes?
"Cry in her arms (my mom) and tell her how hard life has been without her and how i’d Do anything to have her back"
Jul 24, 2018
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I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...

Hi everyone I’m new to this group and I just couldn’t see myself grieving alone anymore...I just lost my mom on July 1, 2018 and her birthday is in 2 days, I have been extremely upset every since she got sick on March 23, 2018 it’s like I was grieving then even though she hadn’t died yet. I feel like out of my immediate family I took it the hardest because me and my mom were extremely close, very close. We cooked together, had fun together and shared so many loving memories with each other. I…See More
Jul 24, 2018
Xavier is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Jul 24, 2018

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Lost my mother this July 1st 2018 and have not had the support needed from my immediate family needed to deal with her sudden death

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Dennis C. replied to Amy's discussion How do I get unstuck?
"Amy, I am so sorry for your loss. The journey of caregiving is extremely difficult. The loss of our especially loved dear ones is unspeakable. There are so many different ideas about what happens to us when we die. Religion teaches many different…"
Friday
Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I just feel like I am in a fog.  I have a little dog that is at least ten years old.  She adored my Mom & she has really grieved for her.  I know how you feel about your dog.  I worry about her.  She is all I have. …"
Thursday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Me too Brett, I sit here an look at my 12 year old Labrador and I know he is on borrowed time, and my heart breaks, losing him will be something that I am not looking forward to. As you said Brett, we have the live our lives until we are called…"
Thursday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Yes, I was looking at something that popped up on my Yahoo news feed. It was an article naming 106 celebrities who have passed away in 2019. So many names and faces that I remembered. Now they are gone, and they aren't coming back. Their time…"
Thursday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett so true she was my security blanket I feel like I have no one to lean on that understood me like her You know what keeps coming in my mind. How true it is and scary that everything has a beginning and an end."
Thursday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I hear it all the time you don’t know how lucky you were that your mother wasn’t sick and you didn’t have to take care of her I say to them lucky I was lucky that my mother died and I was not right by her side to tell her I love…"
Wednesday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"M, the problem is that our security blankets were ripped away. Like you, sometimes I am glad to be sad. I feel like I am closer to my mom when I am crying. At least, her memory is fresher with me when I am in that zone. I feel like the hard reality…"
Jul 16
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Theresa, millions, billions of people have lost their moms. Sometimes someone will tell me that they have lost their mom, too, but they were able to deal with it, and they wonder why I haven't dealt with it as well. This may sound like an…"
Jul 16
M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Me too ...I was sitting marking a paper yesterday and suddenly realized that I can’t see or talk to my mother about this or anything else and the tears came.  But I’m glad to think of her, in a way I can be glad to be sad sometimes.…"
Jul 16
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I sometimes will just be sitting down and I start to cry because I keep thinking I miss my mom so much my whole world is just not the same I think that I’ve become a different person it will be four years and I still cry I can’t put into…"
Jul 16
M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Definitely a colder world now.  I like the image of the security blanket — like, as we go forward, we will always keep it but eventually may be able to wash it, fold it nicely, and put it in some place of honour close at hand but without…"
Jul 16
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"The world just became a colder place when my mom died. I just remember feeling like all was right with the world when my mom was in the next room. "
Jul 16
Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"It is such a traumatic event, especially when you have had a wonderful Mom.  It is so hard knowing she is gone.  Knowing this is permanent.  There is no one that can fill the void she left.  My brother was close to Mom, but he…"
Jul 16
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Jul 15
Amy replied to Amy's discussion How do I get unstuck?
"I am not a believer and nor was he. We covered the bases just incase though. We were both raised Catholic. That is all besides the point though. "
Jul 15
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"While I never forget that my mom is gone, for some reason it just hits me over the head sometimes. Just out of the blue I'll be like, "Mom is gone." It's horrible. It's ever present. And the thing is that it is always with…"
Jul 15
Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"My Mom also.  I could always talk to her about anything & knew she was someone I could totally trust.  I am constantly thinking of something I want to share with her & then I remember she is gone.  I loved spending time with…"
Jul 15
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"There is no doubt that it is anxiety. In fact, I think we are experiencing fight or flight. Since birth my mom had been my security blanket."
Jul 15

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