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I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
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Hi everyone I’m new to this group and I just couldn’t see myself grieving alone anymore...I just lost my mom on July 1, 2018 and her birthday is in 2 days, I have been extremely upset every since she…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Andrew Evans Sep 9.

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Andrew Evans replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"As yourself I shared so many happy times with Mam throughout our time together and this will see to enrich our memories of them. GOD bless us one and all."
Sep 9
Andrew Evans replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"I have lost my dear Mam early hours Wednesday I am heartbroken.Her birthday would have been this coming Tuesday"
Sep 9
Avi replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Thanks Dennis. Your statement has given a lot of hope to me who wishes that I will be reunited with my mother some day some where. "
Jul 28
Dennis C. replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"I am so sorry for your loss. I gain strength from the hope we have for the future. I believe that we WILL be reunited with our loved ones. The Bible gives us this promise:  John 5:25 — “Most truly I say to you, the hour is…"
Jul 27
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Jul 26
Avi replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Hi Xavier.  This is Avi from India. I lost my mom on 15 May 18 due to Cancer.  I can understand each and every word on your post as she died in front of me in the hospital. More to add to my agony is that I was not near to her when she…"
Jul 26
Joy replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Xavier, your post touched me in a way that only another grieving person can understand.  Our situations are very silmilar. I cried reading it because I can feel from your words how much you love her.  I love my mama too. We were extremely…"
Jul 25
Xavier replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Thank you Joy I’m living through a very difficult time in my life right now it seems as if it’s never going to get better but I pray daily and ask God to help me through this. And I understand you where you’re coming from I know…"
Jul 25
Joy replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Hi Xavier, I’m so sorry you lost your mom. That to me is the worst pain In the world. My mama died last May and I’m not the same person either and will never be. Like you, only God has kept me going. If not for him, I would’ve…"
Jul 24
Xavier replied to Madeleine's discussion What would you do if you could have your lost loved one back for just five minutes?
"Cry in her arms (my mom) and tell her how hard life has been without her and how i’d Do anything to have her back"
Jul 24
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I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...

Hi everyone I’m new to this group and I just couldn’t see myself grieving alone anymore...I just lost my mom on July 1, 2018 and her birthday is in 2 days, I have been extremely upset every since she got sick on March 23, 2018 it’s like I was grieving then even though she hadn’t died yet. I feel like out of my immediate family I took it the hardest because me and my mom were extremely close, very close. We cooked together, had fun together and shared so many loving memories with each other. I…See More
Jul 24
Xavier is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Jul 24

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About my Loss:
Lost my mother this July 1st 2018 and have not had the support needed from my immediate family needed to deal with her sudden death

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Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
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Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Lia, a few lost minutes cannot compete with a lifetime of love that you shared with your mom."
Friday
Lia Lynch commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi there.  Brett, you were (are) totally right -- I was and think I still am in shock. There was so much to do, and with my kid to take care of, I wasn't processing. At all. Still not. I didn't get to say goodbye.  She was in a…"
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M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"As Brett suggests, you sure can be griefstricken without feelings of guilt -- for me guilt doesn't seem relevant to my deep sadness about losing my mother.  It's more a combination of loneliness, shock, emptiness, disappointment…"
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BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Seems like we all have our regrets and sadness that we live with every day. But I have noticed for myself that though I still have them, they have softened over time. Bluebell On a different subject I want to celebrate this morning of being able to…"
Thursday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett, me too, the only guilt I have is if I did not stop at her house for three minutes, I would have been there, but I was not. I say it everyday why did I do that..."
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Virginia G posted a blog post

No reason to live

No happiness.  Nothing to look forward to.  Constant pain.  Memories everywhere and longing to be able to make more or even talk about them.  Scared, needing answers, anxious, lost, angry, devastated, guilt ridden.   how could life be so cruel?  It’s just not possible.See More
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Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, what is what’s app?  I don’t have a smart phone."
Thursday
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"The pain seems to get worse everyday.  I guess the numbness is starting to wear off.  I need God to listen to me.  I can’t live like this."
Thursday
M Adams posted a blog post

In black and white

Today I had to respond to several emails and repeatedly write down that my mother is dead. Finding it very hard to keep writing the words, so hard that it took several days of tearful effort to complete the three most pressing responses.  Finally got them done.  I just miss my mother so much.  I hate picking up the phone now because some part of me still expects her voice at the other end of the line. I feel wounded by family and friends who are grieving so differently from me, who are keen to…See More
Wednesday
M Adams left a comment for Daniella
"On the surface our situations could hardly be more different -- my mother just died, she was 84 years old and had numerous health problems the last five years -- but reading your words touched me, somehow I felt like they were my own, the…"
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