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I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
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Hi everyone I’m new to this group and I just couldn’t see myself grieving alone anymore...I just lost my mom on July 1, 2018 and her birthday is in 2 days, I have been extremely upset every since she…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Andrew Evans Sep 9, 2018.

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Andrew Evans replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"As yourself I shared so many happy times with Mam throughout our time together and this will see to enrich our memories of them. GOD bless us one and all."
Sep 9, 2018
Andrew Evans replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"I have lost my dear Mam early hours Wednesday I am heartbroken.Her birthday would have been this coming Tuesday"
Sep 9, 2018
Avi replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Thanks Dennis. Your statement has given a lot of hope to me who wishes that I will be reunited with my mother some day some where. "
Jul 28, 2018
Dennis C. replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"I am so sorry for your loss. I gain strength from the hope we have for the future. I believe that we WILL be reunited with our loved ones. The Bible gives us this promise:  John 5:25 — “Most truly I say to you, the hour is…"
Jul 27, 2018
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Jul 26, 2018
Avi replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Hi Xavier.  This is Avi from India. I lost my mom on 15 May 18 due to Cancer.  I can understand each and every word on your post as she died in front of me in the hospital. More to add to my agony is that I was not near to her when she…"
Jul 26, 2018
Joy replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Xavier, your post touched me in a way that only another grieving person can understand.  Our situations are very silmilar. I cried reading it because I can feel from your words how much you love her.  I love my mama too. We were extremely…"
Jul 25, 2018
Xavier replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Thank you Joy I’m living through a very difficult time in my life right now it seems as if it’s never going to get better but I pray daily and ask God to help me through this. And I understand you where you’re coming from I know…"
Jul 25, 2018
Joy replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"Hi Xavier, I’m so sorry you lost your mom. That to me is the worst pain In the world. My mama died last May and I’m not the same person either and will never be. Like you, only God has kept me going. If not for him, I would’ve…"
Jul 24, 2018
Xavier replied to Madeleine's discussion What would you do if you could have your lost loved one back for just five minutes?
"Cry in her arms (my mom) and tell her how hard life has been without her and how i’d Do anything to have her back"
Jul 24, 2018
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I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...

Hi everyone I’m new to this group and I just couldn’t see myself grieving alone anymore...I just lost my mom on July 1, 2018 and her birthday is in 2 days, I have been extremely upset every since she got sick on March 23, 2018 it’s like I was grieving then even though she hadn’t died yet. I feel like out of my immediate family I took it the hardest because me and my mom were extremely close, very close. We cooked together, had fun together and shared so many loving memories with each other. I…See More
Jul 24, 2018
Xavier is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Jul 24, 2018

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Lost my mother this July 1st 2018 and have not had the support needed from my immediate family needed to deal with her sudden death

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Virginia G replied to Pamela philipp's discussion Defeated
"I feel the same.  The website doesn’t help because we aren’t talking and around people in person.  That isn’t even enough when people are willing to talk and most don’t have time for me."
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"You are right. I became conditioned with my mom. Every health crisis that my mom would have was traumatic for me. And then there would be that ray of light. I would have mom safe at home once again. I developed some false hope. But as time passed…"
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M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Baby steps is such a good metaphor — I think when we’ve been traumatized by terrible loss, many of us lose our resilience, and basically have to baby ourselves, setting very tiny goals and challenges, slowly working our way forward.…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Theresa, it's hard for me to be positive about anything. I always feel like something bad is right around the corner. That's because every time I thought mom was safe and had cleared another hurdle, something else would go wrong. It's…"
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joe kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"It's been a little bit since I shared but it seems like I'm just stuck, out of sync with everything included myself in a way.  It's been like one long endless day.  I don't know how to explain it even.  I'm…"
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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Monty, For some of us, we will always remain out of sync with the rest of world. We, like myself. live in our own universe."
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett you are right that is the "dark" side, it scares me too That is so great about the phone call from the directors at the center, that must have made you feel like a million bucks.   You are making a positive impact, I know…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, I actually looked up the EquoVox. I couldn't find an English link for it. I'll keep looking. I'm just really curious how it works. And I want you to make your own decisions. I just want you to be happy."
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"M, I'm half Catholic, and Theresa is 100% Catholic. This is a huge part of Catholicism. Ouiji boards just scare the crap out of me. I listened to a lecture series from a Vatican exorcists. There was a question and answer period. Someone asked…"
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M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett, it gives me such a lift to hear about your new gig — sounds perfect! Lucky kids too, great when they can connect with an adult who also makes them laugh.   Your comment re the spirit world app that Avi came across brought back a…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, things like that scare the crap out of me. I mean, how do you know that you are actually communicating with your mom, and not something bad? I believe that you may open yourself to something that may attach itself to you. That's just…"
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Brenda Ann left a comment for Lisa
"Dear Lisa, I send you my heartfelt condolences as well as a welcome to our website. It is a safe place to come and talk or vent about your loss. Talking is very helpful in sorting out how to move forward. I would like to share a paragraph from what…"
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"No we should not, God is the only communicator Avi, you are right. We should not disturb the deceased, they are in peace, it is us who are not in peace. I still struggle everyday, I just have come to recognize that this is my new life.  "
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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Monty, I m sure everyone on our forum had a very bad day. I just kept myself very busy all. Since I live in Florida and it is in the 70's I worked outside all day long. I feel Julian is with when I am outside. He knew I just loved the outdoors…"
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Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi Friends,  Few days back I came to know an app EquoVox which can help you communicate with your loved ones who are deceased. It seems be fake to me but have seen some videos on you tube people claiming its real. Did anybody on this group…"
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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Trina, It is so true, my Julian and I celebrated everyday of our life together like you an Joseph. We were Blessed."
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Trina Mamoon commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Linda, thank you for the post. The words ring very true. Today is Valentine’s Day, but fortunately for me, Joseph and I didn’t always celebrate on this day. We didn’t feel that we had to show our love and devotion on a specific day…"
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Linda Engberg left a comment for Lisa
"Welcome to Online Grief Support it is a great community."
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