"This past Monday, June 4th, we would have celebrated Dylan's 5th birthday--this is b'day #3 without. Still missing him everyday, but trying to continue forward as there isn't much else we can do. His baby brother was born in…"
"Missing you today, missing you everyday, loving you always and forever in our hearts! Happy Heavenly birthday Dylan! Wishing so much you were here so we could all celebrate your 4th birthday--I had so many things I wanted to share with you! The 2…"
"Hi Kate, How are you doing? I have been thinking of you ever since reading your comments about losing your beautiful little girl. I want to tell you how very sorry I am for your loss. I lost my youngest grandson on Feb. 1 when a commercial truck hit…"
"Hi Nicole, thanks for your comments--it means alot to me. I have had a few dreams of Dylan--in one I had him in my arms and was tickling his belly and he was laughing and in another he was running to me and I could see the joy on his face and how…"
"No words could ever express how sorry I am for your losses. You have been through so much that I am sure little is comforting but I can say when my dad passed I was so mad because we always promised that we would find a way to come back and let the…"
"First off let me say how deeply sorry I am for your loss--I lost my Dad 8 years ago--to heart disease and I have to say I think a sudden death is that much harder to deal with. I was able to be there when Dad died and to tell him how much he meant…"
I am a single Mom/Gramma tryng to deal with the loss of my 2-1/2 year old grandson. I joined this site hoping to connect with others who understand what I am going through
About my Loss:
12 years ago, on May 2nd 1998, I lost my 22 year old daughter DaVeda in a car accident--last March 29, 2009, my Niece's husband drowned on a family vacation, but my most recent loss--the one that is ripping my heart out is the loss of my precious 2-1/2 year old grandson Dylan on February 1, 2010 when his stroller was struck by a commercial truck.
No words could ever express how sorry I am for your losses. You have been through so much that I am sure little is comforting but I can say when my dad passed I was so mad because we always promised that we would find a way to come back and let the other one know we were ok. I did not feel him or see him and others dreamed about him. Then this month 4 days before my birthday while driving I heard him as if in my head say I know birthday secrets(which he would always say) I started balling and telling myself to get a grip it was just me missing him. Then I walked into the house and there was my family and a present. My husband said we were going to wait intell your birthday but I felt for some reason like we had to do it today. I broke down truley for the first time agreeing that I cant see him but are loved ones never leave us!
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"Angela I am very sorry for your loss. It is not unusual to cry often after any loss of someone so close. I still cry over losing my husband and it is almost 2 1/2 years. What I think is so comforting in your story is all that you learned from your…"
"The sadness that is 24-7 has greatly affected my health, I went to greif counciling for a year and have a wonderful big sister that has been my life saver. Some days I think i'm ok but I cry every night in my sleep 2 years after Gabes death, i…"
"It's tough when you lose several immediate family members at once...sometimes you wonder if it's some sort of endurance test. This happened to my cousin many years back. It took time and support from other family members for…"
I have been befuddled over the passing of the 10 year old boy that was hit by a car last week. My grandchildren were in my care all last week so there wasn't much time for deep thought. Npw that I am alone now I'm having lots of thoughts about it, so I went to the farm for a little distraction, plus the grass out there really needed cutting. I brought my dog Zero with me. Zero's getting old and I want him to have a good summer. Anyway Zero and I took a trip to the farm. I buzzed around cutting…See More
"Mark, I apologize in advance if I'm out of line but I worry about you. I am hurting too from the very recent death of my mom and probably couldn't lend a ton of advise, but having people to talk to is important. You sound…"
"im so sory abot yore loss essie wen my dad died my harf sister wont me to throw evry thng out i did not wont to u cud say im a realy bad horder i dont lik throwng thngs out
im, 1 of thes i keap out of datee bill resepts i do iv kept his diarys…"