Lucy
  • Female
  • New York, New York
  • United States
Share on Facebook MySpace
  • Blog Posts
  • Discussions
  • Groups (1)
  • Photos
  • Photo Albums
  • Videos

Lucy's Groups

Gifts Received

Gift

Lucy has not received any gifts yet

Give a Gift

 

Lucy's Page

Latest Activity

Lucy updated their profile
Aug 2, 2020
Lucy joined Ada Bowie's group
Thumbnail

Losing a sibling

For anyone who's lost a sibling. It's worse than people seem to think it is.
Aug 2, 2020
Lucy is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Aug 1, 2020

Profile Information

About my Loss:
I tragically lost my 26 year old sister in May. She is my only sibling, and I'm only 24. It was an accidental drug overdose. Growing up we were inseparable, however, she always struggled with anxiety and mental health. As we entered our 20s it became worse and worse, and we drifted apart. A sister bond never fades though. She was unhappy, but not truly suicidal. This was a complete accident/mistake.

I struggle to find too much literature about sibling loss, but it feels unbearable because while I grieve my own loss, I also absorb the grief of my parents. I cling onto my spirituality and ask her for signs, which helps immensely. I'd like to discuss sudden sibling loss with those who share this experience.

Comment Wall (1 comment)

You need to be a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community to add comments!

Join Online Grief Support - A Social Community

At 4:26pm on August 1, 2020, Ninja said…

Sending you love. I can certainly relate to the tragedy of sudden sibling loss to accidental OD. 

 
 
 

Latest Activity

Speed Weasel posted a blog post

Assumptions

An assumption is an unexamined belief: what is thought to be true without ever really realizing that we think in that way. For better or worse, understanding starts with entertaining the idea that something is true.  Truly profound thoughts generally come to light from the relaxation of these (flawed) assumptions.  This is where I find myself today...Perhaps, one of the more significant drivers to pushing down the loss and grief at the time of the accident, ignoring it and mindlessly walking…See More
Mar 13
Profile IconCari Jo Converse, Jennifer and James D. Thornsberry joined Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Mar 13
Profile IconMarina Dsouza, Leah, Sandra M Aaron and 5 more joined Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Mar 5
esther joined HollowHeart's group
Thumbnail

Sibling Loss

This group is for anyone that has lost a brother or sister. Sibling loss is often minimized and people don't realize how devastating losing a sibling can be. I lost my older sister and my life will never be the same. She was my only sibling, I looked up to her, I went to her for everything. I lost my past, present and future. It is traumatic.See More
Mar 4
Speed Weasel posted a video

Sun Keeps Risin'

Provided to YouTube by The Orchard EnterprisesSun Keeps Risin' · Lissie · Elisabeth Corrin Maurus · Martin CraftMy Wild West℗ 2015 Lionboy RecordsReleased on...
Feb 26
Speed Weasel posted a blog post

Triggers Continue to Surface

Late February is a challenging time of year for me.  Jen’s birthday is the 23rd and serves as an annual reminder of all of the potential that was lost…Her’s (mainly), mine, the world’s honestly.  This year she would be 52…It is increasingly hard to imagine, through all of the iterations possible, what she could have become, what was to be her (significant) impact on the world.That being said, things, emotions, have largely settled down since I committed a potential version of what could have…See More
Feb 15
Michelle joined Gyla Lynn Darden's group
Thumbnail

Loss of a child In memory of my son or daughter

This group focuses on healing ourselves and each other over the death of a child and welcomes a Christian atmosphere to help with the healing process. I welcome all of those grieving.See More
Feb 8
Tammy McLaughlin and Rosie are now friends
Jan 30

© 2024   Created by Ninja.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service