Lori
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Krista L replied to Lori's discussion This has been so hard.. in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"Lori, Are you still a member on here? My story is similar to yours. We dated back in the 70's. He was my first romantic sexual relationship. We kept tabs on each other through friends and family all our lives. We got back together in 2007 and…"
Aug 3, 2018

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Mom, prior military,
About my Loss:
I knew my boyfriend since high school...we were good friends..parents in the same business...we reconnected 2 years ago, both in bad marriages and unhappy...I was starting my divorce...I lived in a different state...but we started seeing each other and talked every day...this last June I relocated to be closer...he was going thru a difficult, expensive divorce...he would come spend weekends with me...come see me before work and after and he moved his ex out and set her up in her home ... The papers were at the lawyers for signature...we were planning on spending the weekend after together...and I was going with him to a drs appt...he never showed up..he had died in his sleep from fluid on his lungs...his ranch hand found him...his divorce was never finalized....I had met only a couple of people while we were together that knew about us....now I'm grieving alone...his best friend reached out to me a couple of times in the last few, weeks...but I am SO sad and I feel so lonely....there weren't any services, so I couldn't attend ...and the family did their thing...but no one knows about me...ugh...help

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At 3:08pm on December 5, 2016, Cathy Richardson said…

Hi Lori  - I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It will be 4 years December 19 since Nino passed away. The years have made it bearable, I am not going to say easier because it never gets easier, it just gets more bearable. You will get through this. I started this group because I had no where to turn when Nino died. None of my friends truly understood the pain I was feeling or how lost I felt. But you go on, continue to live and continue to remember how wonderful he was! He lives on in your memories and hopefully he will reach out to you in your dreams. You can e-mail me at catrich1964@gmail.com if you want to talk more. 

 
 
 

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When i got married March 25th 2019 was one of the Best days of my life i was marrying the man of my Dreams,My best friend,My soul mate. Even though it was one of the happiest day of my life but it was also a sad day.Because i was marrying the man of my Dreams knowing that i only had a little time left with him. He was diagnosed in December of 2018 of stage 4 lung and kidney cancer that day was one of the worst days of our lives. I thought but when the time came and he took his last breath that…See More
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"Till death do us part", a letter to my husband

How do I begin to thank you for the life you have given me. A life that included 4 loving children, 4 beautiful grandchildren and memories that will last forever.We had more then the romantic love we had when we first met almost 40 years ago. That fades with time. Through the ups and downs, fights and reconciliations, laughter and tears we had something more. We had true love, commitment, trust, and most importantly we had friendship. Since 1975 we have been together to celebrate every…See More
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dream moon JO B replied to dream moon JO B's discussion mad at god
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"It's a Catch 22, impossible to solve.  I accept Her body isn't alive anymore, but I HAVE TO HAVE HER BODY ALIVE AND STILL WITH ME and I want that to be forever.  I know that's impossible, but I STILL HAVE TO HAVE IT!!! …"
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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hello Friends, As all of you have stated, I too fake my happiness. I laugh on the outside and am crying for him on the inside. I ache so bad that my Julian is not in my life. I just don't understand why God won't take me. Until he does, I…"
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