My nephew died suddenly on 09/07/2021. He was in the shower then headed to his barber. According to the barber Ryan never showed up. My sister and Ryan's girlfriend got to the house around 3:00pm…Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by bluebird Nov 9.
"When people are grieving, especially deeply, it's difficult for them to understand how difficult the loss of the person is to others who loved her/him as well. From what you've said, you probably understand more than anyone else what your…"
"It's been hard to support each other because we don't understand the others grief. My sister, for instance, makes it clear that she's grieving the most because she was his mother. I tried to explain that what she says is…"
"That's horrible; I'm so sorry. I agree with your last sentence: "We're all grieving differently because we all loved him differently". Hopefully you, his parents, other family members, his girlfriend, his best friend,…"
My nephew died suddenly on 09/07/2021. He was in the shower then headed to his barber. According to the barber Ryan never showed up. My sister and Ryan's girlfriend got to the house around 3:00pm and found him dead in the shower. So Ryan died around 12pm instead of 3pm.I got to the hospital as fast as I could, but he'd already been pronounced before arriving to the hospital. We got to visit with him for a couple of hours but he still had a neck brace on and intubation tube in. He looked…See More
When my father died - he was a victim of a violent crime - me and my family went through hell. But, from all the bad things, the memories from the funeral arrangements still linger in my thoughts. The bureaucracies: my father's siblings discussing if he should be buried with their parents, the "open coffin" decisions...etc.I'm not sure if I resent any of the options we made, but it's only me that comes back to these death bureaucracies? Does anyone also have similar experiences? It seems so…See More
"Is there an online support group for survivors of the loss of an only child which meets on a weekly or monthly basis? My Aunt and Uncle have lost their only child - a 19 year-old son - and they are in such pain... we need help"