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How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?
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I just learned about this on-line support group and decided to join. I am just trying to find some good things in this new world without the love of my life. We were together for over 33 years and…Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by Dennis C. Sep 29, 2018.
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Dennis C. replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?
Jim Horvath left a comment for Nicole"I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I knew what to say to you in order to ease your pain, but I don't. This forum may help you see that a lot of people go through losses and grief. I try to stay busy and try every day to write…"
Jim Horvath replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him."You already know this BB, but there are no words anyone can offer. There is nothing that will ever replace him. I find some comfort in looking at pictures and reading old cards we gave to one another for birthdays, Mother's day,…"
Jim Horvath replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?"Life without her does suck. I really try to see the good things in the world and hang on to those-like my daughter and I cooking together, going out and getting a coffee with her, etc. I am sorry for your loss Beth-just try to take it…"
Jim Horvath replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?"I am so sorry for your loss, Joe. I think your idea about my daughter joining is really good and I appreciate that. Like you, I choose to believe we will be reunited one day and I find some solace in that. I don't know what…"
joe kelly replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?"I'm sorry for your loss of your love Jim. I wish I could give you some advice but I can't. If you read my posts and those of many others here, you'll find that you are not alone with your grief. One thing I can…"
Jim Horvath replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?"thank you! Keep doing that...I do my positive notes in the am, which is when I feel the best right now"
Beth Swansboro replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?"I have never after 3 years found any answers yet. I am so lonely and lost I barely get through each day. I TRY nd keep things together for my son. My life just feels over. I find enjoyment in
Nothing. I understand how you feel Jim. Life
Does suck!!!…"
ALEXIS replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?"Jim, I am also new to this group and to this experience. I lost my husband of 20 years a little over a month ago. I too worry about how to be there four our 19 yr old daughter. As far as how to find something positive each day, that is challenging.…"
Jim Horvath commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."My wife and best friend of 33 years died from cancer recently. We have a daughter. I just wonder how people find anything happy and positive each day? I started a journal where I try to write down little things that were good or…"
Jim Horvath posted a discussionHow do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?
I just learned about this on-line support group and decided to join. I am just trying to find some good things in this new world without the love of my life. We were together for over 33 years and the sadness and grief is overpowering. I want and need to help my 21 year old daughter too, but man it is hard. I feel like I went from a perfect life to a life that will always suck...See More
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- Live in TN. Lost my wife in August and we have a 21 year old daughter
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- Love of my life and my reason for being. Together for over 33 years
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I miss my Mom!
If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
Lynn Williams commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter"Thinking of everyone here with love"
Connie K commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter"It's been so long since I've been here. Somehow I don't get notifications anymore. And from November til after y sin' birthday March 31 I just want to run away and disengage with the world. But I think of you all and send you…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I envy people also Brett that have a loving support system to help them through what we are going through.
God is love and he wants us to be compassionate and kind, and he will always be by our side.
I believe that"
joe kelly replied to Jade Rogers's discussion Hi!"Dear Jade,
I wish I had some advice for you because when I sign in, I notice that you often sign in I guess to check if anything new has been posted. Being lonely after losing your Love after so many years together is a major part of all who…"
Virginia G replied to Pamela philipp's discussion Defeated"I feel the same. The website doesn’t help because we aren’t talking and around people in person. That isn’t even enough when people are willing to talk and most don’t have time for me."
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"You are right. I became conditioned with my mom. Every health crisis that my mom would have was traumatic for me. And then there would be that ray of light. I would have mom safe at home once again. I developed some false hope. But as time passed…"
M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Baby steps is such a good metaphor — I think when we’ve been traumatized by terrible loss, many of us lose our resilience, and basically have to baby ourselves, setting very tiny goals and challenges, slowly working our way forward.…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Theresa, it's hard for me to be positive about anything. I always feel like something bad is right around the corner. That's because every time I thought mom was safe and had cleared another hurdle, something else would go wrong. It's…"
joe kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."It's been a little bit since I shared but it seems like I'm just stuck, out of sync with everything included myself in a way. It's been like one long endless day. I don't know how to explain it even. I'm…"
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Monty,
For some of us, we will always remain out of sync with the rest of world.
We, like myself. live in our own universe."
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Brett you are right that is the "dark" side, it scares me too
That is so great about the phone call from the directors at the center, that must have made you feel like a million bucks.
You are making a positive impact, I know…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Avi, I actually looked up the EquoVox. I couldn't find an English link for it. I'll keep looking. I'm just really curious how it works. And I want you to make your own decisions. I just want you to be happy."
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"M, I'm half Catholic, and Theresa is 100% Catholic. This is a huge part of Catholicism. Ouiji boards just scare the crap out of me. I listened to a lecture series from a Vatican exorcists. There was a question and answer period. Someone asked…"
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