"Jeff Takes time they tell me I understand what you are feeling I too lost my best pal- husband- lover- support system - my all . He saved me at age 20 when my life was in turmoil Loved each other 46 yrs
I Miss him every day- night of my life. Music…"
"I have know idea but if you figure it out please let me know. I feel so broken inside. I guess we are supposed to put on our big person pants and go on. No one in my life ever told me that something could be so painful and difficult. Even if they…"
"There are moments even after the first year passed - and i know that isn't the whole of grieving - you grieve as along as it takes - but I like to think that there is a veil between us, me and my husband - that he's on the otherside and he…"
on sept. 14 2009 i lost my wife of 13 years. she died in her sleep. she was just 46 yrs. old and we were haveing the time of our lives. everything i did in life was for her, im so lonesome now !!!!!!!!
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"Susan, I love reading your post, you have a wonderful way with words. I came to this site looking for answers. The Grief Share group I attended was disappointing. It was held at a church but they seemed to avoid the mention of God.…"
"In the interest of not being misunderstood, I'm adding to my last post.
I am not trying to say I am special in any way. We are all loved by God as much as the next person. Any gifts God has given to me are available to anyone else should they…"
"I know that there really is NO solution to our pain today. We can comfort one another, but the pain is still there.
One thing that helps me through the pain of such loss is HOPE. I try hard (it doesn't work every day) to look forward to a…"
"I wake up every morning and cry, it just happens, I tell my mom I miss her. Next week she would have been 93
My nerves are wreaking havoc on my body, my stomach, my back aches.
I'm tired, I just try to keep going."
"So many comments resonate. Stewart, Morgan, Charlie, Bluebird, and others. Morgan, your comment (I'm paraphrasing) of no where to go, but all the time in the world, to go there'......this is what I keep stumbling over. I'll be doing…"
"Stewart, I can't begin to say how really glad that I didn't. I'm still struggling with the reminders and triggers, but at the same time I'm so very happy to be home where we shared so many wonderful times."
"My faith has not been tested due to the death of my husband. My faith is helping me through the difficult times. It has helped me through the difficult years prior to his death and still helps me now. Without my love relationship with the Lord I…"
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"I too am saddened that anyone is here...as you ... most of us are devastated by a traumatic loss in which we find coping difficult....here, I at least find those who understand the immense pain and dramatic life altering circumstances we find…"
"I am so angry right now. I cannot believe I was left behind to have to deal with reconstructing a life. I don’t want any part of this but I am unable to take my own life. To have to keep pushing myself to do things because I…"
"Thanks, Doug. I appreciate that, and I am sorry that you experienced a similar loss. I have never felt so bad in my life. I am constantly analyzing our relationship, things that could have been done differently, I can't…"
"Stewart, I know EXACTLY what you're talking about! I imagine like me, you probably feel a wonderful memory that immediately turns to pain at the thought that you will never experience that particular activity again. NEVER!!!
As far as…"
"Bluebird , I know exactly what you are talking about. Half of myself went with my husband when he died, and I haven't yet, after almost 2 years, figured out how to live anymore. My children are resentful because they think I should be back to…"
"mary, thats my sentiments exactly, well at least every other day. Mine are 20 and 23. My wife and I lived here in this state all our lives, we went all around here all the time together. But now whenever I go anywhere, pass a…"
"Lisa - my heart was so moved by your post. I am so very sorry for the loss of your father, but please be assured that you did everything you could for him. You certainly are a fine example of a loving and kind daughter.
This month marks 20 years…"