on sept. 14 2009 i lost my wife of 13 years. she died in her sleep. she was just 46 yrs. old and we were haveing the time of our lives. everything i did in life was for her, im so lonesome now !!!!!!!!
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"Lynn is absolutely right.We were building a house for our future retirement and home invaders entered the house after midnight while we were asleep.I heard noise and I woke up and my soul mate was fighting with four invaders,I engaged in the fight…"
"I never got a last hug or last I love you, either. My husband was in a medically-induced coma for three weeks because of the H1N1 flu. First two weeks we thought he would pull through, but it was not to be. You absolutely MUST talk to someone…"
"Connie thank you for sharing that.
Sandy, my heart is with you. We know how hard the first few moments, days, months and even years are. All I can say right now is my heart is with you and we are all here for you.
"Thank you Connie, sadly I don't live with his room, we had sold our house in April to try and get away from the drugs on the street. He went with his dad. I have mixed emotions about the room, it would break my heart to be with the room…"
"The dad said that the poem helps others understand that our grief never ends and opens the door for them to talk about our child and remember them with us. Instead of dancing around the awkward silence that fills the air when people just aren't…"
"Well I lost most of my message that came before the poem.
Sandy, my son died on Dec. 1 2012 and we had also bought his gifts. We found friends that would use the gifts (music production gear) as Daniel would have wanted it. But I still buy him…"
"here it is
As we light these five candles in honor of you, we light one for our grief, one for our courage, one for our memories, one for our love and one for our hope.
#1 - This candle represents our grief. The pain of losing you is…"
"I also did not get to hug my baby or say goodbye. We were suppose to have lunch the next day and I changed it. I want to go back and see him and no that he needed to go back to rehab and yes I do blame myself and ask why..why would he do…"
"I know how you feel .It is two years for me and I keep living in the way I can.I still have the pain in my heart.I only have half a heart now but only the Creator who made you and who made me can help us.You must pray and talk to the…"
" Hi everybody, like somebody else has said, sucks to be in this special group but I thank you all for your comments and advise. This is all very new to me (3 weeks) and I think I am sill in shock. People think I'm doing…"
"Thanx alot lynn and stan.. i dont talk to many people because i dont want to share the memories i have left of her.. they r mine and mine alone.. like the pain i carry of losing her is mine to bare alone.. i am determined to end this miserble life..…"
"Ive found the distractions seem only to 'work' for a short time, holding back the dam of grief, despair, exhaustion until all those emotions flood through. They are so powerful & are completely overwhelming. Does it feel the same for…"
"Good morning everyone. Teresa I was thinking of you yesterday and wondering about the tournament. It is a wonderful thing that you are doing. I was thinking that I should be doing something worthwhile like that on an ongoing basis but the things I…"
"I hope you are sleeping - your sight now will let me send a message - however, I am heading out to the park, so I will write you when I get back home. But one thing I want you to understand is that you are being a wonderful example. Giving and…"
"Seriously, J L Carver, you are doing the best thing you can do to help yourself, talking. You have come to a wonderful group that cares about you and will listen anytime.
I have read the brochure When Someone You Love Dies and really appreciated…"
"Zombie, I am so sorry for your loss. It is so recent, of course it is still an open wound for you right now. I lost my beloved soul mate suddenly this past January. I felt the same feelings you expressed, I wanted to die and be with him, I…"