"Jeff Takes time they tell me I understand what you are feeling I too lost my best pal- husband- lover- support system - my all . He saved me at age 20 when my life was in turmoil Loved each other 46 yrs
I Miss him every day- night of my life. Music…"
"I have know idea but if you figure it out please let me know. I feel so broken inside. I guess we are supposed to put on our big person pants and go on. No one in my life ever told me that something could be so painful and difficult. Even if they…"
"There are moments even after the first year passed - and i know that isn't the whole of grieving - you grieve as along as it takes - but I like to think that there is a veil between us, me and my husband - that he's on the otherside and he…"
"It's difficult, but you have to remember that he/she is still there and is always with you. Know that they are in a better place. And one day, in the future, you will see him/her again. So it's not goodbye. It's more of a see you…"
on sept. 14 2009 i lost my wife of 13 years. she died in her sleep. she was just 46 yrs. old and we were haveing the time of our lives. everything i did in life was for her, im so lonesome now !!!!!!!!
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"Zell, I wanted you to know what you wrote on the My Shawn thread to Kim about grief was so very true...you truly are gifted with words and seem to exactly how to phrase some concepts in grieving that are so illusive..I am going through my second…"
"Yes celebrate her birthday. On my son's birthday we had a drum circle outside with his closest friends and family. We left a chair and drum for him. I know he was there with us. It was something he loved and something everyone else…"
"Kim, having said all I've said - it IS pure hell isn't it? this pain is indescribable, its relentless grip on the heart almost impossible to believe. Who ever knew such intense pain existed and that one can carry on living in the…"
"Thank you Kim. I do appreciate it. Yes, the pain is exactly how you describe it. But it is important to know that you should not try to suppress it. I must be felt an experienced. Grief, as you know, comes on like very…"
you so seem to understand me. I am so sorry for your loss as I completely comprehend your deep pain. My Desiree's birthday will be Oct 1st. I without question will celebrate the birth of my only child, as to how this will be received by…"
"zell. thank you from the heart, yes everything you said is true. I know you are here for me and I hope you know the same from me. everyday I go see shawn , no one is out there I like it that way, I cry so hard and talk to him…"
"Love what you say Dennis:
"I do completely believe that the future holds:1) The end of all suffering2) The end of all pain3) An abundance of peace4) The reunions with those that we have lost in death.Those things give me great comfort at times…"
"Hi Jo - yea, that can look rather funny hey :-) but this is what it actually means:
For we are strangers and sojourners (aliens) are used in conjunction with each other to imply that we are temporary residents on God’s earth…"
"It's ok Kim.
I can relate to you not wanting to "go public". You need to feel absolutely comfortable about who you speak to. Best maybe for you would be someone who has gone through a similar loss, or if not the same loss,…"
"Would like to say hello to all on this thread.It is almost five months since my hubby went to live in Heaven with Jesus. Has been a lifetime since then but with the help of Jesus, I am now slowly returning back to normal. Tears can only help for…"
It's been 6 months since the loss of my daughter as well. I am still at the point that one day at a time is not comforting to me. All I feel is the pain... The Agonizing loss. My daughters birthday however was in June. There was no…"
"thank you zell. yes everyday hurts so dam bad. I do feel very alone, I know no one that has gone through this pain here where I live. as for going to a support group, right now I just cant do it. I don't want to talk to someone that has not…"
"thnx zell it tks abot 25/30 mins in a car or bus i cnt drive dont no hw 2 plus medicl resons iv bean on pic size its a web sit it cn mk yore pics biger or smaller 2 fit on difnrt sits i hav
u can fix thn in 2 4 d as well u can
hears a few i did…"