"Jeff Takes time they tell me I understand what you are feeling I too lost my best pal- husband- lover- support system - my all . He saved me at age 20 when my life was in turmoil Loved each other 46 yrs
I Miss him every day- night of my life. Music…"
"I have know idea but if you figure it out please let me know. I feel so broken inside. I guess we are supposed to put on our big person pants and go on. No one in my life ever told me that something could be so painful and difficult. Even if they…"
"There are moments even after the first year passed - and i know that isn't the whole of grieving - you grieve as along as it takes - but I like to think that there is a veil between us, me and my husband - that he's on the otherside and he…"
"It's difficult, but you have to remember that he/she is still there and is always with you. Know that they are in a better place. And one day, in the future, you will see him/her again. So it's not goodbye. It's more of a see you…"
on sept. 14 2009 i lost my wife of 13 years. she died in her sleep. she was just 46 yrs. old and we were haveing the time of our lives. everything i did in life was for her, im so lonesome now !!!!!!!!
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"Steve said he would be with me forever and now here comes another stupid holiday. We didnt do much but at least we were together and now Im alone. My kids say Mom go meet someone. Its not the same, you may have some one you can talk to for awhile…"
"Today I am not feeling so utterly devastated. I had some tears this morning and I am still having to force myself to do any thing .
It seems like so many things remind me of Carol Ann. I watch old holly wood movies allot and the ones shot in the…"
"You're very welcome. If you trust your doctor, you might want to consider taking the anti-depressant as well, at least for a while.
I doubt I will ever take an anti-anxiety med again, but like you, if I do, the sexual side effect is…"
"I am sorry about what you are going through. We all have to grieve. It's natural and healthy to grieve. Even if your coach doesn't want
you to grieve you still will. It is in our human nature to grieve
the loss of our loved ones. I will…"
"Thank you so much for your input Bluebird. I was taking something for anxiety, but my doctor insists that I need a good anti-depressant too.
As for the known side-effect it is a big reason why I did not want to take it in years past,…"
"Vasanthi - it will be hard but also familiar and sweet to be among Shreya's things. Since Daniel still was living here, I am in his room often and it is difficult to let go and change anything but slowly I am able to. But I always find that I…"
"Lynn Williams thank you, I know I am going to India with a feeling that my son will somehow be there and what you say is right , that it will be healing but I also know I have to look at what happened straight on and know that he won't be…"
So nice of you to share. there is nothing like 'butting in' and I felt a little relieved too as I also used to be very sympathetic and now I realize that I don't know the first thing about sympathy because that…"
"Hi Vasanthi, I just wanted to tell you that I feel the same way as you about death since I lost my child. Other deaths don't compare in the slightest. That is something that almost bothers me because I used to be a very empathetic/sympathetic…"
"I am not on anti-depressants now, and have never taken medication for depression, but I have taken medication for anxiety disorder. I took Zoloft for a few years and that helped a lot, then I took nothing for a few years, then I found that I needed…"
"Connie I am so sorry to hear about your cousin. Life doesn't make sense to me anymore. Vasanthi just being home on Shreyas's birthday surrounded by his possessions and his love will be healing. Realizing we will never hold our children in…"
"So nice to hear from you all.
Kim the pain is torturous isn't it? Like Connie, I do believe that opening one's heart will get answers. When we are in some much pain I know its difficult to think of anything else. But slowly you may feel a…"