"Jeff Takes time they tell me I understand what you are feeling I too lost my best pal- husband- lover- support system - my all . He saved me at age 20 when my life was in turmoil Loved each other 46 yrs
I Miss him every day- night of my life. Music…"
"I have know idea but if you figure it out please let me know. I feel so broken inside. I guess we are supposed to put on our big person pants and go on. No one in my life ever told me that something could be so painful and difficult. Even if they…"
"There are moments even after the first year passed - and i know that isn't the whole of grieving - you grieve as along as it takes - but I like to think that there is a veil between us, me and my husband - that he's on the otherside and he…"
on sept. 14 2009 i lost my wife of 13 years. she died in her sleep. she was just 46 yrs. old and we were haveing the time of our lives. everything i did in life was for her, im so lonesome now !!!!!!!!
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"We will never ever be the same without our mothers, those of us that shared that special bond. We are all fortunate to have had that in our short lives because not everyone does. My father died 2 weeks before my 11th birthday so my mother was my…"
"First of all, thank you for starting this website. Many people, myself included, have found some small measure of comfort here.
Regarding the article posted above -- I'm sure those steps are true for some people, and it's good for…"
"I understand, as much as anyone else can. I understand wanting to live in the past forever, to be back in your beloved's arms, to not want the future.
I want our life back; I want to go back in time and change things, make my husband go to the…"
"Thank you Sue, there is no doubt that she loved me because we always had a special bond!!! I guess it is not so much that I wanted to see her go with my own to eyes. It is that I wanted her to be by her side when she exited this world like she was…"
"Lots of virtual hugs!
Maybe see about finding a different therapy group to see if it is a better fit. The crying and everything else is normal. I have support of my family and I still feel so alone. I actually got out one of my Mom's stuffed…"
12 Steps in Grief Process1.RECOVER FROM A LOVED ONE'S DEATH REQUIRES MORE THAN TIME.Yet, if we allow ourselves the time to mourn we can gradually break grief's grip on us. Recognizing the role and value of the grieving process orients us to accepting the fact of the death. Acceptance marks a major step towards recovery.2.GRIEF IS UNIVERSAL - GRIEVERS ARE DISTINCTIVE.Grieving follows a pattern, but each griever experiences it differently. Awareness of the basic pattern reveals common ground for…See More
"I am so sorry for your loss. My Mom just died as well. I just wanted to say, you were there for your Mom. You were there all the while. You could not control the very moment she passed, but you were there, and you comforted her and told…"
I've been feeling worse. It's been over two weeks. Yesterday all I did was cry. I do not have anyone of my own. My brother is the only one left and he always winds up making me feel bad. No one in his family, his wife, my niece or his Mother In Law has reached out to me since the funeral. I feel abandoned. I did not expect them to be my new family but I thought they would care. Offer to help in some way. Have me over...they live down the street. It hurts. I feel like they are mad at me. Like I…See More