"Jeff Takes time they tell me I understand what you are feeling I too lost my best pal- husband- lover- support system - my all . He saved me at age 20 when my life was in turmoil Loved each other 46 yrs
I Miss him every day- night of my life. Music…"
"I have know idea but if you figure it out please let me know. I feel so broken inside. I guess we are supposed to put on our big person pants and go on. No one in my life ever told me that something could be so painful and difficult. Even if they…"
"There are moments even after the first year passed - and i know that isn't the whole of grieving - you grieve as along as it takes - but I like to think that there is a veil between us, me and my husband - that he's on the otherside and he…"
on sept. 14 2009 i lost my wife of 13 years. she died in her sleep. she was just 46 yrs. old and we were haveing the time of our lives. everything i did in life was for her, im so lonesome now !!!!!!!!
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I am awake again, and have some anxiety. When thoughts that I know just lead to pain have been entering my head, I try to change the subject. Not having much luck right now, but I will continue doing it. I need to start to prepare for a trip on Tuesday. Once again, I am going to attempt to return to work. I failed a few weeks ago when I tried. The physical and mental discomfort I felt while I waited at the gate for my delayed flight, led to a breakdown at the airport. Since then, I had a…See More
"I had a dream about hubby last night. He was standing in front of me head down so I could only see the top of his head. He was wearing the suit I had him laid out in. I thought that I should go hug him and then I woke up. NO clue what/if this means…"
"Sara like you I was with my wife for 37 years we work together we did everything together I can honestly say I know exactly how you feel its been almost 13 weeks now still seems like yesterday I'm not sure how your husband passed mary had a…"
"Dear Lynn, All your lovely ornaments your husband sounds as thought he was as thought ful as my Mark. I sent a message to you but I think it got lost in the cosmos somewhere. I thought I would tell you I had spiritual healing on Friday and I…"
Yes, on several occasions I "saw" Joseph. Not to offend anyone, it's how ghosts are described. After all, the word ghost comes from the German word Geist which means spirit. Joseph's spirit has visited me a few…"
"I think that the shock of losing my husband and the anger at my stepdaughters is wearing off and allowing me to really feel the pain of losing my husband.
I forced myself to go to his grave on Thursday for the first time. They couldn't get his…"
"I finally forced myself to go to my husbands gravesite on Thursday. His stone is not set, and I didn't want his grave to be bare, so I ordered a plaque with his picture and his name. I took lights and wind chimes and flowers and did my best to…"
"Part 2--So why have I fallen so far into the hole? Anyone's guess will work. I am pretty much convinced at this point that that at my age, no biological children, an estranged stepdaughter, no diety, family that are living their own…"
"Part 1--Sorry to sound so defeated. I have pushed forward for quite awhile now. I did it through the first year. I trained a new gal for y position, packed up 35 years of living, sold our home without an agent and moved 1700 miles…"
"Within a period of 6 wks - It was a professional that killed my Mark. It was a professional that prescribed his brother the wrong meds and damn near killed him. It was a professional that prescribed me antidepressants which made me even more sad and…"
"Hello. My name is tiffiny. I lost my only little brother Feb. 4, 2014 to a car accident. Yes grif is different for everyone. Some people like to yalk about it and others don't. I am still trying to deal with it, but this site has helped me a…"
That is a long time. Have you tried any professional consolers? I used professional help to get me through the grief of my first wife. It is not uncommon for people to get stuck in grief but when it happens it usually takes outside…"
"Hi Morgan, I am sorry you have fallen back into the abyss. Most days I spend pushing through them like a drone. Moving and doing what is expected of me, filling the squares required by the tragic loss. Those are the worst.
"m morgan - Hi, I just wanted you to know that you are not alone in that abyss. I've been there many times it is the worst place in the world. When I find myself so deep in the grief pool that it is all I can do to breath I tell myself that I…"
"Tildyc - My first wife comes to me in dreams every once in awhile. She didn't do that till about a year after she died. But I know when she comes she is really there and not just my imagination. Her visits give me great hope that Cherie will…"
"Today I fell into the abyss. It was deeper and darker than it has been in quite awhile. It seemed to have been building the last couple of days. It's like all of a sudden the grief is worsening. I ended up in bed all day. I…"