on sept. 14 2009 i lost my wife of 13 years. she died in her sleep. she was just 46 yrs. old and we were haveing the time of our lives. everything i did in life was for her, im so lonesome now !!!!!!!!
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Just cried for over 2 hours, that type of cry I call an "ugly, howling" type of cry. I wish I had someone to sit with me when I cry like that. Don't have to say anything, do anything, just be with me. Being alone and crying like that makes it feel so much worse. When will the pain go away???See More
"You are very lucky to have had such visits from your partner. I don't blame my husband for dying, and I very much doubt there is a god, but if there is then I do blame that god for allowing him to die. For me, anger isn't a…"
"sandi i know what you are going though but i also know the they are in heaven and watching over us. over time it does get easier. you have grief in your own way don't let people tell you how to grief if you need to talk to someone talk to your…"
"Melissa, very early on in this journey I came across Carol Kearn's website. She is a grief counselor who was mentored under Elizabeth Kubler-Ross. She also lost her daughter, Krissie. I found her writings to be very helpful. She has also…"
"Connie-I'm so sorry for your loss of Daniel. I know the heartache only to well and still after six years flip out and want to go search the universe for Kaitlin, which is a bit embarassing, but at least there are those of us that know the…"
"I am so sorry for your loss" I know that is such a pat answer that it begins to piss you off. You cannot blame yourself as a caregiver because we all do the best we can. I am so lost without my husband & I know it won't get any better.…"
"I haven't been here for quite a while, but I look in now and then to see how it's going. I haven't been able to talk about losing my only son since his death the morning of New Years Eve, 2012. He was my first born. His death deflated…"
"Melissa - we know your pain - sometimes it feels too much to handle but you can overcome this wave. I know your daughter is still with you in spirit and you just have to hold on to that - I don't think it's a lie. You'll see her again…"
"Don't worry, as much as I would like to leave this world, I really haven't a way to accomplish it with out leaving a mess, and I fear if I took my life I'd be assuring myself a place in hell, and Kaitlin's not to be found…"
"6 years of despair is to much for me, I'm just tired of being in a place where everyone feels out of sight out of mind, which includes pictures of my daughter that no longer grace there fridges with the rest of the cousins. I can't…"