"Jeff Takes time they tell me I understand what you are feeling I too lost my best pal- husband- lover- support system - my all . He saved me at age 20 when my life was in turmoil Loved each other 46 yrs
I Miss him every day- night of my life. Music…"
"I have know idea but if you figure it out please let me know. I feel so broken inside. I guess we are supposed to put on our big person pants and go on. No one in my life ever told me that something could be so painful and difficult. Even if they…"
"There are moments even after the first year passed - and i know that isn't the whole of grieving - you grieve as along as it takes - but I like to think that there is a veil between us, me and my husband - that he's on the otherside and he…"
"It's difficult, but you have to remember that he/she is still there and is always with you. Know that they are in a better place. And one day, in the future, you will see him/her again. So it's not goodbye. It's more of a see you…"
on sept. 14 2009 i lost my wife of 13 years. she died in her sleep. she was just 46 yrs. old and we were haveing the time of our lives. everything i did in life was for her, im so lonesome now !!!!!!!!
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"Susan, how lovely that Tom's friend is being supportive and kind. I know that is a special blessing to you. Just remember the good and try to let the bad slip away and I will try to take that same advice. Blessings!"
"Thank you, Mary, for your very kind words. There is such joy in those dreams and then such profound loss when I realize the next day is here for me but not him. I know that he wants me to go on.....and expects me to do so......and I won't…"
"Hi Vicky. I haven't had those type of dreams but it sounds like your subconscious mind is working through your loss. Dreams are said to be our means of understanding what is happening in our lives. If it were me, I think I would savour these…"
"You are very lucky to have these things of his; Mark and I were planning to marry in April and basically, I have nothing of his. He had meant to change his will once we learned that he only had 6 months and then he died suddenly a week later.…"
"Good afternoon, I am dealing with my grief on a day to day basis. I have noticed that I dream of Mark often--he calls me and we talk or we are together somewhere. These dreams have been very pleasant until the last few days. Toward the end of these…"
"amazing poem.... it makes me think about the time when the tears can no longer fall.... when we're so empty and depleted so badly that we can't even cry anymore.... is that the 'acceptance' phase? I don't think there IS an…"
"Story... everytime someone else we love dies its like we go through again the deaths that came before THEM I think.... and this time you also were seeing pictures of the lives of some of those you love when you were all together.. so that just…"
"Rachel, I will specifically light a candle right now for you. I will pray intently for you to find peace... I Just lit your candle... And sent some serious positive energy your way. Remember PTSD breathing, 4 7 8...breath in to a count of 4, hold…"
"Wow! I love those pictures, Jo B. I love all of them!I haven't been on for a while. I've been sick off and on all winter. I guess I'm run down from caregiving for my parents before they died. I hope you…"