on sept. 14 2009 i lost my wife of 13 years. she died in her sleep. she was just 46 yrs. old and we were haveing the time of our lives. everything i did in life was for her, im so lonesome now !!!!!!!!
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"Jackie, my Mom had a god daughter named Jackie! She will be giving birth to a daughter of her own any day now.
Some days I make it all the way through with a relative numbness to it all and these past few days I really hadn't let it consume…"
I am now going on on my 3rd Christmas without my Husband, I cannot stand to listen to Christmas Music as it brings me no joy or happiness.I wish I could just sleep from now until the next year. I have a family but it hurts so much to watch all the spouses hugging and kissing. I am the first of the family to lose a spouse, so no one gets why I don't feel any happiness. As Scrooge said, screw Christmas.See More
"Valerie, Garrett, and Margie-I'm sorry you're going through this too. I'm happy to see all the positivity on here. Like all of you I am hit or miss. Yesterday was my first day of "real life" since she…"
"The day my mom passed life hit me like a freight train.
I immediately realized I had been living mylife the wrong way. I always had a poor outlook on life and although right now I am saddened like never before. All of my previous negative thoughts…"
"You are being very positive Garret, i know your mom is proud of you. I never took the hoildays for granted with my mom the last few yrs, i told her she was my my present, so i would make bows the night before and in the morning before we opened our…"
"I hope we can all get to a place in our hearts where we are at peace. I can guarantee that none of our mothers would be OK with us being sad around the holidays for the rest of our lives.
We have to do what THEY would want for us.
My mom would…"
"My mom was HUGE on celebrating holidays and I refuse to let this be a burden I carry with me forever. This Christmas will Definitely be difficult but the day will surely pass.
My mom was very enthusiastic about holidays and I never really got it.…"
"Margie i so know your pain i do the same with my moms picture, and i cant stop thinking about her. And Garret, my niece and her kids came on saturday to stay the night and my niece cried after going in my moms room, and she tried to stop herself i…"
"It is so unbelievably hard to be positive in times like these but at the end of the day we are all so fortunate to have had people in our lives worth missing as much as we do.
I'd do absolutely anything to have her back but since I know thats…"
"Hi Garret, i have had many signs that my mom is here still, its of course not the same i know but i know your moms can see and will watch over you guys, she will be be there for the big moments and see, i really believe this. I know it will never be…"
"In times like these we have to look at all the good those loved ones did for us, all the love we got from them, and all the memories we created along the way.
(which is of Course much easier said than done)"
"Sorry for you loss, Jackie. It has been one month and three weeks for me. Like Valerie I am still crying every day. I can't stop thinking about her. I kiss her picture every day and greet her. Like you I wish I…"
"I have an older brother with an 18 month old and it has been amazing watching him bond with his grandmother. It saddens me to know my nephew and my children(have none yet) will never get to know her personally.
I was sooo lucky and fortunate to…"