Lost my significant other on Thanksgiving day. Having a very difficult time with it. Cannot talk to anyone about it. Lost both my parents at the age of 19 and know what it does to you when you don't grieve "properly"
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Hi Jen Sorry you have had a rough couple of days. Some days are worse than others. I lost him 3 months ago and some days I am ok then others I am not. Everything I do I keep thinking 'Oh I have to tell him this', then I remember I cant. I talk to him all the time and just hope that maybe he can hear me. His death was so sudden and unexpected and I still cant get my head around the fact that I will never see him again. I know that he would want me to get on with life but right now everything seems so pointless without his love and support. I hope you have a better day today xx
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