During the tragic loss of a loved one or having gone through several tragedies , be it death of a loved one, divorce , personal health issues, or getting older , ect. Sometimes the stress and depression compounded by grief can be debilitating and it may have us feel as if we are mourning our own deaths while we are grieving the loss of our loved ones , We feel as if our own lives are over , Being in this mode can make recovery a longer more confusing process for some. It can be uncomfortable to…See More
White collar professional with a PhD, 41 years old, male, into sports, essentially an only child, single, never married, no kids, adult orphan, no living immediate or close family members, lacking social support network, my few friends live out of state.
About my Loss:
First, I lost my mom at 8 years old when my mom was only 36. After that, it was me and my dad "against the world." My Dad was first, my father, second my hero, and lastly, my best friend. Recently, December 2019, my Dad died unexpectedly at 74 years old leaving me truly alone with no one in this world. Even though my dad had cancer, I say unexpectedly because his cancer was well managed and getting better, but he died after 3 weeks in the hospital fighting pneumonia. I'm devastated, heart broken, and so alone.
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