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bluebird commented on Efren Loredo's blog post Finding it harder to deal with my parents murder/suicide as I get older
"I understand; I haven't seen a therapist for much the same reason -- nothing they can say or do will bring my husband back to life, nor undo the devastation his death has made of my life. However, I have seen a therapist in the past for other…"
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Efren Loredo commented on Efren Loredo's blog post Finding it harder to deal with my parents murder/suicide as I get older
"bluebird thank you for taking the time to read my blog and for your support"
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Efren Loredo commented on Efren Loredo's blog post Finding it harder to deal with my parents murder/suicide as I get older
"No I have never gotten or seeked professional help. They way I see it is their is nothing anyone can tell me that's going to help me unless they can bring my parents back. I guess I'm set in my ways."
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bluebird commented on Efren Loredo's blog post Finding it harder to deal with my parents murder/suicide as I get older
"Of course you miss your mother dearly. I am so sorry you had to go through such a horrible thing, especially as such a young child. Have you ever gotten any help in dealing with this? "
Dec 30, 2017
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It's becoming more difficult dealingl with my parents murder/suicide as I get older

My name is Efren I am now 43 years of age. When I was 10 years old I witnessed my father murder my mother then take his own life. This happened 33 years ago but I'm having trouble coping with it now more than ever. I've been really depressed as of lately and not being myself. It seems to hit me during the holidays but every year it seems to be getting to me more and more. Some might say I'm feeling sorry for myself and to get over it already, easier said than done. I'm just look to hear from…See More
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I'm originally from San Jose CA
About my Loss:
In 1984 I witnessed my father murder my mother then kill his self.

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It's becoming more difficult dealingl with my parents murder/suicide as I get older

My name is Efren I am now 43 years of age. When I was 10 years old I witnessed my father murder my mother then take his own life. This happened 33 years ago but I'm having trouble coping with it now more than ever. I've been really depressed as of lately and not being myself. It seems to hit me during the holidays but every year it seems to be getting to me more and more. Some might say I'm feeling sorry for myself and to get over it already, easier said than done. I'm just look to hear from… Continue

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