David Heggi
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David Heggi commented on David Heggi's blog post Sunday
"Dear bluebird, No, no one who has ever lost a cherished loved one can understand our loss. I used to mean well and try to comfort others, but I still had my David and could not possibly know. And yes, I do believe in an afterlife. Dave was a very…"
Dec 3, 2017
David Heggi commented on David Heggi's blog post Sunday
Dec 3, 2017
bluebird commented on David Heggi's blog post Sunday
"I've found this site to be helpful, too, in that at least I know that some of the people here understand somewhat what this hell is like for me, because they are in similar situations. I don't think that people who still have their…"
Dec 2, 2017
David Heggi commented on David Heggi's blog post Sunday
"Thank you bluebird, It has become so necessary to connect with all the kind people here.  "Hell" - can any other word describe this place with "No Exit?" I'm so sorry about your husband - I too wished I had died with my…"
Dec 2, 2017
bluebird commented on David Heggi's blog post Sunday
"David, There are many people here, me included, who understand the sort of loss and pain you are feeling. Not exactly, of course, as this hell is different for each person, but we get it. My husband died five years ago, and I wish I had died with…"
Dec 2, 2017
David Heggi commented on Raven Richardson's blog post Heartbroken
"Dear Raven, It is so hard, especially after just a month, to lose your love, your everything in life.  I lost my beloved partner of 35 years less than 3 months ago. The agony is indescribable - no one understands, or can reach you in this…"
Nov 29, 2017
David Heggi replied to Richard Rivera's discussion MADNESS TAKING ITS TOLL
"Hello Richard, Sorry you're not doing well. Hopefully the results of your bloodwork will give your provider somewhere to begin with treatment - what do they say? What kind of work do you do?  If you can't do it anymore, aren't…"
Nov 29, 2017
David Heggi replied to Richard Rivera's discussion MADNESS TAKING ITS TOLL
"Bless you Richard, You're pulling all my strings. I too cry out for my beloved to come for me and not leave me behind; it's been my worst nightmare. Is there some physical malfunction the reason for your weight gain?  What does your…"
Nov 28, 2017
David Heggi left a comment for Stella
"Dear Stella, I am so sorry for your loss. My partner of 35 years also died in Sept at the age of 70.  My David looked like your father in your profile photo together.  It is so painful;  we are never ready to let them go - we need…"
Nov 28, 2017
David Heggi commented on Sam Hayward's blog post How writing helped me to heal
"Hi Sam, My name is David. I'm new to this site. I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear husband; we do whatever we can find to ease the pain.  I too have found that journaling  helps; it can be very cathartic. It is amazing that…"
Nov 28, 2017
David Heggi replied to Richard Rivera's discussion MADNESS TAKING ITS TOLL
"I'm so sorry, Richard The loss of your dear Annette would be more than enough to handle.  You also have health and financial problems, and a job you dislike - all so overwhelming. I understand how you want it all over and be with your…"
Nov 27, 2017
David Heggi commented on David Heggi's blog post Sunday
"Thank you, Alice It was so nice of you to send me your kind thoughts.  Even though it's been less than 3 months since my David's passing, sometimes I feel as though I have said it all and heard it all. yet the grief and pain live…"
Nov 26, 2017
Alice Thompson commented on David Heggi's blog post Sunday
"Hello David, I’m so sorry that you are suffering. It is a completely devastating experience to lose the one you love most. It’s one thing I know about. There are many grieving people on this site who read the posts just to feel…"
Nov 26, 2017
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Hello,My name is David.I'm new to this community. I joined because I am grieving over the recent loss of my partner of 35 years. I need acceptance and support.See More
Nov 26, 2017
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Nov 26, 2017

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My name is David.

I'm new to this community. I joined because I am grieving over the recent loss of my partner of 35 years. I need acceptance and support.

Posted on November 26, 2017 at 9:49am — 7 Comments

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