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Comment by Jesse's Mom on May 11, 2017 at 8:15pm

Thank you for those who have posted on this thread. I am now nearing 4.5 years in my grief journey. I watched this video tonight, and as I near Mother's Day, it is so hard.

May you find some small light in the dark night of the soul. 

It is a testimony of Roland Comtois who had a near death experience and works in the nursing field. 

https://youtu.be/_uLmhEwiTyM?t=36m54s

Comment by B.Windsor on May 10, 2017 at 10:07am

It started out as dreams--or what i thought were dreams--a couple years after my father died.  The dreams were recurrent and really stuck with me, so i did some research into their possible 'meaning'.... and it hit me like a boulder!  (My dad had actually spent a few hours with my (now) ex, since he was my dad and i was the baby girl and all that...i thought they were 'OK' with each other, but after my dad died, things got weird....  Within six months of his passing, my ex's mom demanded he move in with me, so i wouldn't be alone in the house...didn't bother me, since that was where i'd grown up.  But, he wound up moving in, anyway, and we soon realized that at least one of my distant relatives had died there....i never knew it, but for some reason, he kept experiencing something in the night, that was trying to get him to leave.  A year or two later, after we'd moved into a new double-wide on the property we'd just had created for us, the dreams started.)When it used to happen, i pretty much just chalked it up to my need for a parent, at the time.  But, looking back, i know it was my dad who was trying to send me subtle signs of warning to be careful.  It took me another couple of decades before i listened, but i'm glad i finally did.  Even now, my ex is still....trying to control me.  i left in May 2011, and we've been divorced since 26 Aug 2012.  i didn't learn about our daughter's passing until the following day--and he had the gall to tell me that he wasn't even going to let me know she'd died.  So, it really does not bother me, one bit, the times he felt harassed earlier in our marriage, while he slept.

Comment by Stehanie Loughmiller on February 3, 2017 at 3:38pm

I wish that my dad would give me a sign or something physical to let me know he is okay...but truth be told I just don't believe there is anything after this life like heaven or hell....maybe its all just a nice thought, something completely made up to give us hope while here on earth? Not sure.

I believe that our spirits live on somehow....but nobody knows for sure what happens when you die unless you yourself have died and have lived to tell the story (many have)

Now, with all that said I think DMT is a very interesting factor in the death process. If you don't know what DMT is, well, its the most powerful hallucinogen on the planet. Guess where is most commonly found? In fact, DMT is located in the very center of the brains core...only to be released when you die :Hence the drug is often refereed to as "meet your maker". So really, your last moments on earth, you last few breaths...chemicals are being released into your brain and you are tripping balls.

This is my theory, what if you can reach your loved ones through DMT? I would love to find out one day In the not so distant future....as I would love to be able to tell my dad I love him one last time.

Comment by JO B on February 1, 2017 at 4:42pm

1 of my cats lucys toy fell frm my brths car wish im goin 2 put on her grav wen wethr gets bit betr thn it is now it wz lk a sine she aprovs of my 2 new kittys she duz 

Comment by JO B on January 27, 2017 at 5:02pm
Comment by joanne on January 20, 2017 at 12:14pm

Hi jo b, I had many dreams since my Andy died and I can now distinguish between just dreams and the more vivid dreams , they feel real in a way thats hard to describe,  I like to think that Andy is visiting me through these dreams, that somehow hes still out there, maybe I'm crazy, who knows, but I'm glad you saw your dad and I hope it gave you a moment of happiness xxx

Comment by JO B on January 20, 2017 at 8:38am

had a nap saw my dad for a bot min but flt so real it did but iihe lookt grt not ill no mor evn full of engyy he wz mor engy thn iv got shud sal all of us on hear mor engy its kj iv loss all my engy u cud say

Comment by kathleen akin on January 10, 2017 at 11:03am

So last night I had a dream with Rocky in it. It wasn't about him, he was just in it. I was not aware in my dream that this is what I have been waiting for, for 10 months. I wish I was. Sounds like my life...never do I pay attention or live in the moment. I kick myself all the time for this very thing.

Anyway, I was drawn to this big building in what was my "home town" and I was looking for a place to groom my dog. I was told by a girl in my dream where to go. Where I ended up was this huge building. I got the feeling the building was not meant for dog grooming, but had at one time been something like a train station.

Rocky joined me in the dream. We kept running into people who knew him and wanted to talk. I was trying to find my way out of the building, but every time I got out it was the back door which faced the ocean. So I quit trying to find the front door (I had left Rocky to figure this out) and watched the sunset on the ocean. Lots of people around, very beautiful and peaceful and the sunset was beautiful.

I would go back in the building and find Rocky. He was always chatting with someone. this is how he was in life too, he had a million friends. I looked around while I waited and noticed all the cute dogs in cages waiting to be picked up. They were all small dogs. I looked down and my dog was not Bruno, but a Shih Tzu I had before Bruno, who had died suddenly from infection in her bladder. Anyway I just walked around and kind of marveled that this building we were in. How big it was, how open and the lighting was so mellow. The whole feeling of the dream was calm and gentle and the ocean right outside made it feel like it was a special place.

I didn't do much interaction with Rocky. He was always busy talking to other people.  I didn't touch him, only walked along side him.

OK-what the heck does that mean????

Comment by JO B on January 7, 2017 at 5:13pm
Comment by emma on January 4, 2017 at 7:56pm

My mom and I have had things happen to us that we both thought we were loseing our minds , since my dad passed away he has moved things off of the wall , in the basement we have seen a white light flashing bye so fast , also my dad would turn things upside down like my moms pictures in the washroom

 

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