I'm wondering what everyone is doing to heal. I read alot on this site about the loved ones that we have lost and I identify with every one of you, having lost my husband on December 22nd to cancer. I'm trying all these different things to help me heal and I would like some advice on what you are doing to heal. I'm connecting more with Nature, I stay very close to my 2 dogs -they are so soothing. I try not to spend day after day alone in the house with no communication with anyone. I call on Bob's spirit to guide me. Any more ideas? This would be greatly appreciated! Xox Debra
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I feel like I have been kicked in the stomach again.
I am happy it is done. She would have wanted that. Her name and dates are below…"