Linda Engberg's Discussions (229)

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"Hi Bluebird & Joy It has been 5 years since I lost my Husband. I too had a grief…"

Linda Engberg replied Jun 12, 2018 to Griefshare support groups

5 Jun 12, 2018
Reply by AnneJ.

"Kimberly SAME HERE"

Linda Engberg replied Feb 23, 2018 to Has anyone on the site use alcoholic to cope with Grief.

10 Feb 23, 2018
Reply by Linda Engberg

"JenShep, I only have a glass of wine when my grief feels like it is going to sallow…"

Linda Engberg replied Jan 15, 2018 to Has anyone on the site use alcoholic to cope with Grief.

10 Feb 23, 2018
Reply by Linda Engberg

"Morgan, Thanks for your thoughts, I keep trying different things. I am trying medita…"

Linda Engberg replied Jan 4, 2018 to Has anyone on the site use alcoholic to cope with Grief.

10 Feb 23, 2018
Reply by Linda Engberg

"Jo, You are right, it just makes you feel worse. "

Linda Engberg replied Jan 3, 2018 to Has anyone on the site use alcoholic to cope with Grief.

10 Feb 23, 2018
Reply by Linda Engberg

"Hi Francine & Jo. Jo is right Christmas and all holidays are just another day.  …"

Linda Engberg replied Dec 23, 2017 to Christmas mean nothing to me.

3 Dec 23, 2017
Reply by Linda Engberg

"Me too."

Linda Engberg replied Nov 22, 2017 to Holidays Again

4 Nov 22, 2017
Reply by Linda Engberg

"Hi Jo, I once was happy when I had my husband at side, which will never happen again."

Linda Engberg replied Nov 22, 2017 to Holidays Again

4 Nov 22, 2017
Reply by Linda Engberg

"That was beautifully said Jon-Paul"

Linda Engberg replied Jul 21, 2017 to No one cares after spouses death.

9 Jul 27, 2017
Reply by KIM Montgomery

"Thank You, he was a beautiful man."

Linda Engberg replied Jul 12, 2017 to No one cares after spouses death.

9 Jul 27, 2017
Reply by KIM Montgomery

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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Happy Father's Day to my Husband Julian in Heaven. I miss you so much."
23 hours ago
Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I started to compose a blow by blow sequence of events of my loves illness and passing but it became too painful and couldn't continue.  Here we share how we are feeling grieving our lost Loves.  In reality, most of my underlying…"
yesterday
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"No matter how we express our thoughts, we are all in the same boat together. We just keep waiting for it to sink so we can join our loved ones."
yesterday
bluebird commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"M Adams, I totally understand; I detest being around happy families, and especially happy couples. It's not that I want anything bad to happen to them, I definitely do not. It's just that they have what my beloved and I should still have,…"
yesterday
M Adams commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"usually I find your comments really clear, Linda, so I don’t think it’s not being good with words, more that it’s hard to express these things in words.  Actually I couldn’t follow what Joe said either, but it’s…"
yesterday
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hello M Adams Joe explained in his post of how I feel. I am not good with words on explaining things but Joe you said it perfectly. I just want to thank everyone here for sharing their thoughts, as we are all in the same boat together."
yesterday
Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Speaking for myself, I identify with Linda.  My Love left our world and I know it, and accept that she crossed over into another realm of existence and can't come back.  I want her back and I live in HELL every day without her. …"
Saturday
M Adams commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Linda, not sure what you mean here when you say you can accept the loss of your husband but not being able to change it is your whole problem — do you mean not being able to change the fact of the loss, or not being able to change the way it…"
Friday
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Morgan, Like you mentioned in your post, there is no normal in my life. I just take each day as it comes and just wait for death. I can accept that Julian is gone but not being able to change it is my whole problem."
Friday
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Haven't been writing recently as have had so much to organize in my life I just haven't had a moment and when I do I am so tired.  So grateful to everyone else who continues to write though.  I look here daily to read.…"
Friday
mindy posted a status
"Hello everyone I'm doing ok I went back to work and just had my meeting there today they said I'm doing an awesome job"
Thursday
mindy and Brenda Ann are now friends
Thursday
Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"They told me that Mom had a heart attack.  It happened on the weekend.  I had made her breakfast & she seemed fine.  I am thankful she was at home & that I was with her, but it hurts so much knowing she is gone.  I just…"
Thursday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I was with my mom when she passed and it was not sudden. I may have thought I was prepared. I wasn't. I tried to say and do all of the right things. Still, after her last breath, it was as though I hadn't prepared at all. I knew what to…"
Thursday
Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Thanks so much!  It helps having others that understand.  Some of my family is supportive & that helps.  It helps just having someone listen that truly understands.  I have one sibling, but he was never as close to my…"
Thursday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"It's important to have people in your life who understand, even if they are on a message board like this, because sometimes you have to look far and wide to find someone to walk with you. Sometimes I will call my mom's sister. She will…"
Thursday
Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Thank you, some days are better than others.  I feel so for you.  My Mom was the center of my world also.  I lived with her & took care of her.  I am so thankful that I could be there for her, but now I miss her so…"
Thursday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Three months is not very long. It is still very fresh for you. There will be a lot of triggers. Sometimes they will hit you out of the blue. Other times you know that one is coming, like if you have to drive by a familiar place. It's important…"
Thursday
Patrick E Woodson posted a status
"Hello everyone. I lost my best friend two weeks ago. I'm constantly crying feeling like I can't go on."
Thursday
Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I never cried much before, but I do now.  I think crying does help.  I had a trigger this morning & have been crying since.  It has been over three months, but I still feel numb.  "
Thursday

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