I lost my husband in 2010, I just lost my dad on Sept, 1, 2023, I lost my nephew on Sept. 10 2023 and I am losing my mom she is diing and can go anytime soon. I can not handle all this, I want to see my mom but, I can not watch her suffer in pain and watch her die. I would not go to the hospital to watch my dad die, My sister was angry at me, I did not go to my nephews funeral because I can not handle funerals or hospitals, I was with my husband 30 years and that was hard, I do not know what to do about seeing my mother, I can not see her like this, I do not want to see this, I am getting family mad at me because I can not do this, I have been crying and having a hard time and I have no support, What should i do?
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