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Hello everyone. I just lost my dad, not even two weeks ago, and I feel like I can't breathe. He was my favorite person in the world and I sometimes question if I can even function without him. Other…Continue

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Penny Caywood replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
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Penny Caywood replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Liv, I too lost my dad. It'll be 2 next month, and though we didn't have the best relationship when I was a kid, I still miss him every single day. Things can and will get better, you just have to be willing to accept the pain, first. I…"
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Tina left a comment for Liv
"Hi Liv.  Thank you.  Your comment really helped and I feel like even though the relationships we had were different we had a lot in common.  The person I loved passed away from cancer too and because of Covid we never got to spend…"
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Liv commented on Tina's blog post Complicated
"Hi Tina. While I have never lost someone I have been in love with, I did lose my father to cancer and due to the virus, I missed out on his last three months alive. He was my favorite person in the entire world and I couldn't be there for him…"
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Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone, sorry I haven't written in a while. I've needed to express my feelings so many times this week, but somehow I've been at a total loss for words. I guess I should start at the beginning. A week ago, I moved in to my dorm…"
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Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hello everyone. It's been a while since I've written anything. What's new? I'm back in school. Just moved back on campus today. Remember my roommate that I've been struggling to act around? Well, she moved out. She…"
Jan 9
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hello everyone, It is exactly three months today; Thirteen weeks; Ninety-one days. I don't know how I've lasted this long, how I've managed to survive. I miss my dad so much. It's been a rough day. I didn't really want to…"
Dec 27, 2020
Diana, Grief Recovery Coach replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi Liv, I've also lost loved ones to cancer. You asked when will it get better? - the journey of grief is ever evolving, ever changing. We develop coping skills to help us handle our grief, so in that sense, yes, it does get better. But, in my…"
Dec 27, 2020
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hello everyone, It is December 24 today. That means that six months ago today, I dropped my dad off at the hospital. Six months ago today, I hugged my dad for the last time. I haven't hugged my dad in six months. SIX MONTHS! That realization…"
Dec 24, 2020
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi guys, I am sitting in my dad's chair right now, his beloved Lay-Z Boy. We've had this chair since before I was born. I have so many memories of it, of my dad sitting in it, or of me squeezing in next to him, us both sitting there. I…"
Dec 23, 2020
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Dec 21, 2020
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi all, Today, I had to meet with the people in charge of my dad's remaining accounts and stuff. (Because I am so young, I have a trustee advisor, or something like that.) I could barely sit through the meeting. Honestly, I couldn't care…"
Dec 14, 2020
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone, I buried my dad yesterday. It was bad. I couldn't stop crying, like all day. I woke up, and cried. I got dressed, and cried. I got in the car, and cried, and etc. I cried during the entire service too. I don't really know what…"
Dec 8, 2020
Rosie replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi Liv, What a beautiful tribute to your amazing father. I found it amusing when you explained his love for High School Musical, and I think that story helped showcase his fun personality. You really captured your sweet relationship and your love…"
Dec 3, 2020
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Thank you so much."
Dec 3, 2020

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I am a freshman in college. I have a lifetime to live.
About my Loss:
I lost my dad September 27, 2020. I feel like I can't breathe without him.
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"The reality is that you will grieve forever.

You will not 'get over' the loss of a loved one;

you will learn to live with with it.

You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered.

You will be whole again but you will never be the same.

Nor should you be the same nor would you want to."

-Elisabeth Kubler-Rose

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At 7:35pm on January 20, 2021, Tina said…

Hi Liv.  Thank you.  Your comment really helped and I feel like even though the relationships we had were different we had a lot in common.  The person I loved passed away from cancer too and because of Covid we never got to spend anytime together and I really feel like I missed so much because I couldn't be with him.  It is hard to lose someone and each day my emotions seem to be everywhere.  

At 9:10pm on October 9, 2020, Rosie said…

Hi Liv - I joined this forum two years ago after losing my brother to cancer. I haven't visited the site much since, but I randomly got an e-mail notification about your post that brought me here. I am very sorry to hear about your dad. That sounds like a truly painful experience. Please know that you are not alone in your grief, and you're welcome to message me if you ever want to chat. Take care <3

 
 
 

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