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Hello everyone. I just lost my dad, not even two weeks ago, and I feel like I can't breathe. He was my favorite person in the world and I sometimes question if I can even function without him. Other…Continue

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Started this discussion. Last reply by Rosie May 4.

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Rosie replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"I'm sorry, Liv. You're right it's not fair. Your dad should be there celebrating with you. I'm sorry he's not. <3"
May 4
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hello everyone. Today is my dad's birthday. He would be turning sixty-two.  Being in his sixties, and having a teenager is a little uncommon, and with having a stage four cancer on top of that, there was always the semi-unspoken want for…"
May 3
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone. I took my last final yesterday. It is officially summer for me. It is also my first summer without my dad. Summer is such a broad term for some people. For most kids, it meant no school, but for me, it meant more fun times with my dad.…"
Apr 21
dream moon JO B replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"i no for me it fealss so raww new agan iv loss my mom on mon so num a agn "
Apr 7
bluebird replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"I know what you mean ...the bad stuff sucks without our loved ones here to help us through that stuff, but in its own way the good stuff sucks too, because our loved ones aren't here to share those things with us. I don't know whether or…"
Mar 29
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone. I found out that I got into my major's program today. It's a very fancy combined bachelors/masters program, and it only accepts sixty students a year. To say that I was nervous about it, would be an understatement. I was…"
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bluebird replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"I don't understand how anyone's grief can be anything OTHER than "complicated". My husband died 8 years ago, and I feel my grief as strongly now as I did the day he died. The intensity of it tends to be more in punches, rather…"
Mar 27
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Six months ago my world fell apart My world stopped, I'm still waiting for it to start The world still spins, and that's the saddest part Now I'm only left with the shattered pieces of my heart That's not the only thing…"
Mar 27
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Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone. So I think I figured out why I've been so upset lately, other than the obvious. I realized that everything started falling apart about a year ago. That's when my dad really started to decline. I still don't really know…"
Mar 24
Maria Herrera replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi Liv, So sorry to hear about this.  I am in the same boat, some of my friends, do not ask me how I am feeling and some do, but I can not expect them to know how to deal with this HUGE loss.  So I try and not take it personally.  No…"
Mar 22
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hello everyone. This is going to be a very tough week for me. I can just feel it. Today is the sixth month anniversary of the last time that I spoke to my dad on the phone. He then was medicated in the hospital to the point where he slept through…"
Mar 22
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hello again everyone.  So, I know I was kind of upset last night, but I'm in a much better mood now that I got all of that off my chest. I do have one more thing that I want your opinion about though.  I want to get a…"
Mar 20
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone. So today, I watched a few episodes of Master Chef. My dad and I used to watch them together. It's not the first time I started rewatching shows we used to watch together. I loved Bones and we watched all 12 seasons together. I…"
Mar 20
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi there, everyone. So, last month, when I started to get really lonely being up at school all by myself, my mom reached out to other moms on Facebook, and found other kids who were going through similar feelings. So over the last month, I have met…"
Mar 16
Liv replied to Liv's discussion New to this severity of grief
"Hi everyone. Things aren't going very well right now. I am really struggling. I miss my dad more and more everyday, if that is even possible. I'm sad all of the time now. It's difficult to think about him at all without getting upset.…"
Mar 9

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I am a freshman in college. I have a lifetime to live.
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I lost my dad September 27, 2020. I feel like I can't breathe without him.
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"Just so you know...

I can't stop grieving just because you believe it is time for me to move on.

I can't stop hurting just because you do not understand the piercing pain in my heart.

I cannot stop my tears from flowing just because they make you uncomfortable.

My heart is not suddenly mended just because you believe that I have grieved long enough.

I will grieve the loss of my loved one for the rest of my life.

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At 7:35pm on January 20, 2021, Tina said…

Hi Liv.  Thank you.  Your comment really helped and I feel like even though the relationships we had were different we had a lot in common.  The person I loved passed away from cancer too and because of Covid we never got to spend anytime together and I really feel like I missed so much because I couldn't be with him.  It is hard to lose someone and each day my emotions seem to be everywhere.  

At 9:10pm on October 9, 2020, Rosie said…

Hi Liv - I joined this forum two years ago after losing my brother to cancer. I haven't visited the site much since, but I randomly got an e-mail notification about your post that brought me here. I am very sorry to hear about your dad. That sounds like a truly painful experience. Please know that you are not alone in your grief, and you're welcome to message me if you ever want to chat. Take care <3

 
 
 

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