Alexandra Tomko
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Alexandra Tomko commented on Diana, Certified Grief Counselor's group I love my Dad.
"I lost my dad on June 17. He was my biggest supporter, and we were extremely close. I feel lost without him."
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Alexandra Tomko commented on Diana, Certified Grief Counselor's blog post After Death Communication
"I had a conversation with my son two years after his passing. I lost him during pregnancy and it haunted me that I would never know him and that brief conversation meant the world to me. He revealed things I hadn't even realized I had been…"
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I love my Dad.

For everyone that has lost their Dad.
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Alexandra Tomko is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
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About Me:
I'm Alex, age 40. I'm a Recovery Peer Support Specialist and the mother of a 5-year-old daughter. What no one tells you about grief is how intensely LONELY it is- you may not be the only one who lost someone but you are the only one who lost that specific someone, and it can make you feel completely isolated in your pain. This is why I think having support during the grieving process is super important.
About my Loss:
I went through a pregnancy loss with my son in 2010. It was the most traumatic experience of my life, and I still grieve him immensely.
More recently, my father passed away in June of 2020. We were extremely close and I don't think the reality of his passing has sunk in yet, but I know when it does it will be devastating.

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Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
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Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
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bluebird replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
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Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"That's a good way to put it.  Your second paragraph doesn't sound insane at all.  I know what you mean.  I feel the same, and we're luck to have even that. In the video I thought the laughter was out of place - at least…"
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