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Comment by dream moon JO B on July 7, 2021 at 2:33pm

so sorry on loss stella loss das 9 dad 9 yrs go loss mom 3 mth go im stil num on lozzin mom 

evn got acusd of lyin avot her possin evn toldd pppl 2 go 2 funrell hom ask thm 

i no iv had few wobls on moms los not sunkk in shes gom wz sam wen dad poss i wz so wz mom

its wot i cnt handl wen frinds stp speekin 2 me or cross syt to avod me is 1 of wost thngs u can do 2 a persn its loss sum 1

Comment by Stella on July 5, 2021 at 5:02pm

Hello. I’m new to the group. I lost my dad about a month ago. We had a very complicated relationship. I guess I just don’t know if I’m processing this like I should be. I tend to push down emotions instead of feeling them.

Comment by dream moon JO B on April 27, 2021 at 12:40pm

i no lozzin mom bean so num thn tv juts set me off a but i no on dad it took 2 yrs on mom i no it cud ta mor thn 2 yrs

Comment by Carie on April 27, 2021 at 12:00pm

Thank you Dream I am to the point where I have to take things second by second most of the time.

Comment by dream moon JO B on April 27, 2021 at 11:41am

so sorry on loss of yor dad loss dad 9 yrs go loss mom 3 wsk go im juts so num on lozzi n mom lk i did wen dad 9 yrs go

Comment by Carie on April 27, 2021 at 11:33am

Hi I'm Carie. I lost my father last month and am having such a hard time with it I can't get over the fact my brother won't speak to me haven't heard from him since the service I understand he is grieving also I also understand people grieve differently but I just want to be there for him also 

Comment by Pennywyze on January 30, 2021 at 6:03pm

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I'm still trying to figure out how & when I can grieve the 5 people I lost, individually. I could've been able to grieve those members of my family at different times of their deaths were spread out over time. But the 5 people I lost were gone between February of 2019 and April 2020 so, there's my conundrum. 

Comment by Pennywyze on January 26, 2021 at 4:43am

Been missing my dad a lot lately. He might have been a jerk most of my childhood, but he began treating me like an adult when I became one. That caused me to respect him more, and I respected him as though he was God. Not because he made me, but because mom was a stickler for my showing dad respect. Including lying to him and talking bad to him.

Love you dad

Comment by dream moon JO B on January 24, 2021 at 3:07pm

yep so tru diana u soon lern by frinds or u thrtt thy wz frinds wen we loss a lovd 

we do iv bean on hearr blogdd ovr yrs 

on hear sinsee 2012 

hit botll few tims hopin it wz anserr but i no itss nott not

all i no is i do it my speed on grieff i do no 1 eslsses say so

iv had sillllly comntds i hav u shud be happy yore dads dead why say stuff lk ths fw of my frindss hav had simlr comtss lk me

wen i loss my cat lucy evn  got why  u cryin ovr cat 

coz i lovd her she wz my kid my fur kid dorter she wz

Comment by Diana, Grief Recovery Coach on January 24, 2021 at 2:57pm

@pennywyze, don't you just love people who tell us how we are suppose to grieve and how we are suppose to feel.  I also have a so called friend that tells me how I am suppose to feel about everything.  I am trying gracefully to get her out of my life.  I'm allowed my feelings and emotions - they are real.  Everyone is grieving the way they grieve.  You can't tell a person how to grieve, yet, people do.  Enough out of me.  Wishing everyone a good week to come.  

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