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Comment by Vikki Avila on July 22, 2009 at 11:49am

My prayers are with you and your family Becky, God is with you also.....I'm so sorry for your pain.

Comment by Vikki Avila on July 22, 2009 at 11:47am

How am I suppose to get over this depression. My brothers and my sister never visit daddy's grave. I cannot get through to them, that he is the Patriarch of our family, and deserves at the very least a visit from them once a year. They say he is not there. I know this, but his physical body is. They've been 1 time in a year and a half. They didn't help when he was dying, and don't seem to care now that he is gone. Help me to understand this......please!

Comment by Becky Redmon on June 29, 2009 at 7:37pm

He never left us, but is leaving us now. He was Superman to us. Always there for us. This is not right.

Comment by Becky Redmon on June 29, 2009 at 7:35pm

My dad survived septic shock/heart attack after a mishap with the hospital catheter. as a result, He has developed complications from low immune system and his body is shutting down. i already miss talking to him, eating peanuts and sprite at the table, talking about world event nonsense, laughing with him, joking with him. THIS IS NOT RIGHT!!!!!!! He is suffering SO much. He is a good man. HELP ME to understand this! He sacrificed himself for us. WHY???

Comment by Katherine Ellis on June 20, 2009 at 3:47am

I wanted to wish my Dad a Happy Father's day and didn't know where to go to do. I thought of all us without our Dad's and knew this would be the right place. I love you and miss you like crazy. I know your up there watching all of us. Happy Father's day Daddy.

Comment by Becky Redmon on May 21, 2009 at 7:03pm

I am dying. I am so sad. My father is in rehab. He was been away from us for about 3 weeks. I am tearing as I type this. I do not know what I am going to do.
He doesn't look like he is going to get better. He is 84 and the only thing he was good at, it appears, was supporting and providing for his family. None of us are married, so we are alone. He is full of jokes and fun. It's not suppose to be like this. We have no one to help us. He doesn't deserve this. I know that we are just people to ya'll, but it hurts so very much. I do not think we can survive this.

Comment by fred upton on May 21, 2009 at 11:05am

i was 10 yrs old when i met my father in a florida prison guest room. he died very shortly after we met. i never knew him. after 20 years of searching for realitives on my dads side of the family i found his brother. i am hearing stories and we will go to meet him this summer. i pray you all find something afterwards that eases your pain. who am i kidding i think there will be no time we wont think of our losses and grieve over them. i pray you all can heal

Comment by Katherine Ellis on May 21, 2009 at 4:46am

I wasn’t sure I would join this group since I am already on the loss of a child. I am the last, the 4th child of an all girls family. My Dad always wanted a son so he was disappointed having all girls. Dad and I weren’t very close when I was growing up. He was an alcoholic so we didn’t see him much. It wasn’t until he became sick that he got off the alcohol and I finally got to know him. I found out he was an exceptionally intelligent, warm and caring person. And he loved me. Me! I had to wait until I was over 30 to hear that but I got to hear it and we became very close. Dad had a lung condition and that is what killed him but he fought to stay alive for my Mom. Sisters and his Grandchildren. I miss him very much and wish he was here to talk too. When I was sad or in trouble I would go to him and he always had a way to make it better, even though I was all grown up. Doesn’t seem fair that once we became friends God called him home. Since our daughter died I need him more than ever now. I love you Dad, until we meet again. Katherine

Comment by Francesca Rubino on May 18, 2009 at 7:07pm

Hello Everyone! I am new to this group! I lost my Dad 12 years ago (I am 27) but it seems it hurts now more than ever! I admire all of you and understand what you are going through. Don't ever give up and do the best you can every day!

Comment by Diana, Grief Recovery Coach on May 4, 2009 at 7:41am

Kim, I definitely feel the same way about my Dad. It helps me to talk about him and write in my journal.

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