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Comment by dream moon JO B on May 5, 2019 at 6:13pm

it tims evry 1 can mad me for griefing thy do coz thy not had a loss

all

u get

im doinit

for atesneon

i am

or i

am makin it up

or

it

myfaultt

coz

i let

ut

happenn

i

did

i

miss

my 

dad

so miush

i do

wish

i

wz

a

still

a

kid

pickin

p

me

up carryn

me

on

his

sholdrss

wen

i wz

a

kid

watchin

punch

judy

showw

evn if 

puvhhh

scaress

me

now

or

tKIN

ME

2

SEA

miviee

it pictcerss

dont

go

boe

coz

its

espevess

its cbeperr

to waite 3mhgts for dvd

not lk 4 o5 5 yrs for vid

or takin me 

2

a

carrnvil so i wud hav a grt fun on rids

my dAD SID ME

or my dad pushin me on swingss wen i wz a kid

or cathcin me on slid 

ino ppeeple thng im bean silly missin theses thngss

but me dad wear lksoul matss my dd evn d saed use furell ho so i wud findluv frm ther im still watin i am 

but my dad wz bit pyciss he is 

well wz i am bit nyt need 2 workk on it on my slf 

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 4, 2019 at 4:18pm

1 day 1s its had a loss will nopain we goint hru thy will

its painn i wish on no 1

i wz a daddys girll i wz 

if i evr meet a man he will hav to be lk my dad in wayss i mean

i evn speek to his fottoss i do

stardd goin 2 a spirtslt churhh lst yr wish i findd comftin 

coz peppplee ther hav had a loss its lk a supportt groupp it is

wear we all get comft wen lovd 1s cum trhu we do

iv had famly iv not met cum trhu but foto stroyssi herd  wz spott on my fav anits cum trhu 

Comment by Gilda on May 3, 2019 at 2:08pm

I know what you mean, dream moon JO B.  People want us to be happy so they don't have to feel sad with us.  It's all about their feelings, not ours.  If they haven't lost anyone, then they don't know how it feels, and if they did lose someone close, then maybe they didn't love that person as much or feel as close or have as much fun as we did with our dads, so they will never know the pain of such a loss.  But it's also kind of sad for them, that missed out on a wonderful relationship for whatever reason.  They just add to our pain by making us feel guilty for being sad and making them uncomfortable.  All I can say is their time to grieve will come soon enough, if they care about anybody in this world.  Maybe it will be over an animal instead of a human being, and then they will know how it feels.   Then someone will tell them to snap out of it.  

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 2, 2019 at 4:52pm

yes i get it i do

it leastt anmilss dont tell u how we shud feal o grieff thy do not

thy dont say get ovrit or foget abot yore dad r fogett u had a dad coz im not bean fair ther to fealins wish mask me feal bad for bean bad to ther fealinss i ct do wot thy wnt i can notwish can mak  me f feal look bad not thm 

why is it 1s notlossno 1 mak u feal bad for loss we had  

Comment by Gilda on May 2, 2019 at 4:14pm

Thank you, dream moon JO B.  Yes, it's just not the same without our loved ones.  Even if I were to meet someone I think is wonderful, there's no guarantee he or she would stay in my life, but the love of a good parent only dies when they do.  Dogs are pretty faithful but they can't talk.    

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 2, 2019 at 4:05pm

happy bday giilda i no bdays dont feal way we usd to be wen lovd 1s wear stillhear

Comment by Gilda on May 2, 2019 at 3:51pm

I just had another birthday without my dad.  I had a fairly nice birthday with lots of people sending me their good wishes, mostly on Facebook, but I still miss my dad.  It was so wonderful to have someone in my life who understood me, who would never leave me and who was the only person I could ever trust completely.  I couldn't even trust my own mother because she abandoned me when I was only three years old.  

Comment by dream moon JO B on February 27, 2019 at 3:39pm

thnx gilda anvers on 3.3.12it is

i just keep

on thng

in

its a bad dream i will wak up 

his hear agan

we havin alol agan

laffin it sillyst thngs on tv 

Comment by Gilda on February 27, 2019 at 5:47am

I'm still missing my dad, too, dream moon JO B.  It's been four years since he died, and I still wish we could talk, and enjoy movies and music together as we did for many years.  But the years went by too quickly.  Even the happy memories still make me sad, because I am alone.  I have a roommate, but it's not the same as living with someone who knew me and loved me since the day I was born, and vice versa.  It's hard to meet people who are kind and genuine.  My dad was the kindest and most genuine person I ever knew.  

Comment by dream moon JO B on February 26, 2019 at 5:44pm

still 

hear

still

miss

dad

soon

anvery

on

way

still

feal

way

i

did

in 012

2012

i do

3.3.2012

still

tbng

its

bad

mistak

he wil

ay

boo

for

a jok

im

still

hear

just

thrt

it

be funny'to

do

a

jok

on

u

 

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