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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Comment by BLUEBELL on May 4, 2018 at 6:42am

It has been a year Feb 14th since losing my Mom. I too am struggling , and it has been exacerbated by the recent sudden loss of my dear sister's husband. I have little energy and just kind of make through the day the best I can.

I am sorry for your loss Taylah and fully understand what you are going through. You are not alone.

Bluebell

Comment by Taylah B on May 4, 2018 at 6:13am

It’s coming up to almost 6 months since losing mum and I’ve reallt begun to struggle. So many people told me it gets easier with time but I feel like it’s geyyinf harder... I bottled all my emotions up when caring for her when she was sick and I wish now I told her how I felt and that I was heartbroken... I feel so broken all the time 

Comment by Joy on May 3, 2018 at 5:32pm

Thanks Bluebell. My thoughts and prayers are with you too. My condolences to you and your sister on the recent loss of her husband/your brother-in-law.  

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on May 3, 2018 at 4:43pm

hi everyone I havent seen you all in a long time....I am missing my mom, its been about 8 years since she passed away, and with Mother's day on the horizon, its hard, its not getting any easier, I try and not think of her some days cause its too painful, I hope someday my heart will not hurt as bad....maybe that day will never come....I dont think it will....I know she wants me to be ok and happy, but I miss her desperately.....I wish she was still here with me, she lives in my heart though

Comment by BLUEBELL on May 3, 2018 at 12:53pm

Joy. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Also, it is good to hear from you

Bluebell

Comment by Joy on May 3, 2018 at 11:16am

I haven't posted on this site in a while, but since May 17, 2018 will be one year since my dear mom went home to be with the Lord, I thought I'd post a note to say how much I still miss and love her. Those words don't adequately describe just how much. All of the memories leading up to her death last year are coming back full force. God has helped me survive the last 12 mos. without her and endure her absence during the holidays, and what would have been her 80th birthday in March, now I have to endure the first Mother's Day without her.  If I knew last Mother's day, that I would only have three days left remaining with her, I would have lost it.

I'm sure I'll survive this Mother's Day, but not without tears.

Comment by BLUEBELL on May 2, 2018 at 8:18pm

I think it may sound strange to many that seeing the baby possum helped. But it did. In times like these when the sadness is intense, I am grateful when something small happens and I feel Mom's presence. To me, that truly is a gift from God.

Bluebell 

Comment by BLUEBELL on May 2, 2018 at 8:16am

I think that God just showed me he is with me and he also cares about all living creatures. I rescued a baby possum recently and kept him for a couple of days, then let it go in Mom's hedge when it was stronger. I just saw it. It was good to know it is alive and well. Mom and I also helped a baby possum survive when she was alive. She, like me, loved wildlife of all kinds, even creepy looking ones like possums. 

Bluebell

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Comment by Theresa on May 2, 2018 at 5:35am

Bluebell, first off God is right next to you and just right now at this time your cross is heavy but he is there with you at every breathing minute. My faith is the only thing that has gotten me through my tremendous loss.  Your sister will always be there for you, but right now she is grieving twice.  

I have no one, my husband looks at it like oh that was a long time ago, my brother being 70 looks at moms death completely different, also he never saw her being he lived so far away.

I was there talking to her every day and morning and night to make sure she was ok, going to her house every chance I got.  Saying it again she was all I had.

I cry alone, on my way home from work when I am alone, at night.

Please believe me you are not alone we are right there with you.  

Comment by BLUEBELL on May 2, 2018 at 2:48am

I just want to go to sleep and never wake up. But I will and the nightmare will go on.

Bluebell

 

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