Information

Lost My Spouse...

Members: 387
Latest Activity: Oct 5, 2022

Discussion Forum

Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 6 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.

Loss of spouse… 3 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

Comment Wall

Comment

You need to be a member of Lost My Spouse... to add comments!

Comment by Linda Engberg on December 11, 2017 at 6:14pm

M Adams,

I hope it works for you, no luck for me, the only thing I don't do after 5 years is don't cry but I am dead inside.

 

Comment by M Adams on December 11, 2017 at 5:11pm

That's it exactly, Alice -- thank you for expressing it so perfectly.  The silent uneventful part is perhaps the greatest loss, for me anyway.  At this point my main aspiration is just to look normal on the outside -- in a way I've been hiding out for the last sixteen months.  Hoping now that by next year I can face being in public without tearing up and having to explain.  My admiration for people who have gone through this kind of loss keeps growing -- thought of myself as empathetic but just had no idea of what bereaved partners were suffering.  

Comment by Linda Engberg on December 11, 2017 at 11:41am

Hi Morgan,

It's the same with me 4 years, 8 months, nothing has changed, everyday I still feel nothing. Just waiting on Death.  

Comment by morgan on December 10, 2017 at 6:55pm

There's noting left to say after four years, ten months and 20 days. Nothing other than I daily plea with the universe to let me go. No matter what I do there really is no reason for it. There used to be because I wanted him to be proud of me or just share with me or I could support him and love him with all my heart. Now, no heart, no soul, just blank lifeless days of motion. No dialogue except occasional calls from 3 people still in my life. Reduced to watching tv and reading stupid shit on the computer to keep time passing by. Its no longer a matter of whether I think this will change because I know it will not. Its a matter of how long will I put up with it.

Comment by Robin Quinn on December 10, 2017 at 6:28pm

My husband would have been 55 today, going on 2 Year’s without him, I’ve hit a stage where I just feel empty. Hate holidays and nights. Just tired of being without him.

Comment by Bruce Armstrong on December 10, 2017 at 5:30pm

Been 5 Months and still broke long road ahead after 54 years she will be missed just one day at a time

Comment by Linda Engberg on December 10, 2017 at 5:08pm

I am so sorry for your lost Dawn. I lost my Husband 5 years to cancer and I believe it is the work of the devil. I still ache for him.

Comment by Dawn W on December 9, 2017 at 8:17pm

Thank you Nancy

so sorry for your loss

this cancer is a beast

we need to find the cure already

Comment by Nancy on December 9, 2017 at 8:05pm

So sorry Dawn W.  This will also be my first Christmas without my husband of 43 years. He passed May 10th after 7 months of cancer where he went downhill rapidly this past Jan.  So many unsaid things as he was confused off and on.  It is torture.  He was 66.  Out of the blue.  I was 20 when we married. Our 44th Anniversary would have also been this month on 29th.  I'm still in shock as I am sure you are too.  

Comment by Dawn W on December 9, 2017 at 7:49pm

He passed Nov 12, 2017

it was his 62nd birthday yesterday

now Christmas coming...

i can't do this my heart is broken...and I miss him so

 

Members (387)

 
 
 

Latest Activity

Speed Weasel posted a blog post

Assumptions

An assumption is an unexamined belief: what is thought to be true without ever really realizing that we think in that way. For better or worse, understanding starts with entertaining the idea that something is true.  Truly profound thoughts generally come to light from the relaxation of these (flawed) assumptions.  This is where I find myself today...Perhaps, one of the more significant drivers to pushing down the loss and grief at the time of the accident, ignoring it and mindlessly walking…See More
Mar 13
Profile IconCari Jo Converse, Jennifer and James D. Thornsberry joined Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Mar 13
Profile IconMarina Dsouza, Leah, Sandra M Aaron and 5 more joined Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Mar 5
esther joined HollowHeart's group
Thumbnail

Sibling Loss

This group is for anyone that has lost a brother or sister. Sibling loss is often minimized and people don't realize how devastating losing a sibling can be. I lost my older sister and my life will never be the same. She was my only sibling, I looked up to her, I went to her for everything. I lost my past, present and future. It is traumatic.See More
Mar 4
Speed Weasel posted a video

Sun Keeps Risin'

Provided to YouTube by The Orchard EnterprisesSun Keeps Risin' · Lissie · Elisabeth Corrin Maurus · Martin CraftMy Wild West℗ 2015 Lionboy RecordsReleased on...
Feb 26
Speed Weasel posted a blog post

Triggers Continue to Surface

Late February is a challenging time of year for me.  Jen’s birthday is the 23rd and serves as an annual reminder of all of the potential that was lost…Her’s (mainly), mine, the world’s honestly.  This year she would be 52…It is increasingly hard to imagine, through all of the iterations possible, what she could have become, what was to be her (significant) impact on the world.That being said, things, emotions, have largely settled down since I committed a potential version of what could have…See More
Feb 15
Michelle joined Gyla Lynn Darden's group
Thumbnail

Loss of a child In memory of my son or daughter

This group focuses on healing ourselves and each other over the death of a child and welcomes a Christian atmosphere to help with the healing process. I welcome all of those grieving.See More
Feb 8
Tammy McLaughlin and Rosie are now friends
Jan 30

© 2024   Created by Ninja.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service