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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Comment by Sherri on November 27, 2017 at 8:49pm
Hello Crystal I feel the same way if I think about realty it hurts to much I know one day things will get to a more peaceful place but for now it usually ends in tears. As for dreams I haven't had a nice peaceful dream of my mom just that nightmare every time or my mind making me see realty so I understand. Know I'm here if you someone to talk or even cry to. Hugs
Comment by Crystal K on November 27, 2017 at 2:24pm

Survived Thanksgiving. Didn't celebrate cause that would've been too hard.  Dreamt of my mom last night though. Remember feeling so happy to see her alive. Then I woke up so disappointed that it was just a dream.  Still cannot think about her without crying. So I try not to think about her at all cause it will bring the pain back.

Comment by BLUEBELL on November 27, 2017 at 10:10am

Well I made it through my 1st Thanksgiving without Mom. It was hard, but I am feeling better now. As I have heard said already on this thread, the next hurdle is Christmas.

My Mom was cremated, scattered at sea, and did not want a memorial service. Our family honored her wishes. What I miss is being able to go to a cemetery to talk to her, or put flowers. I am going to try putting a decal on a jar that says pennies from heaven and has a heart with angel wings. Each time I find a penny, it will signify to me that it is from Mom. I have ask my family to join me in doing this and they have agreed. I am hoping that by starting this tradition, it will help us feel closer to her.

Bluebell

Comment by Bailey Smith on November 23, 2017 at 1:30pm
Thinking of my American friends on this site celebrating Thanksgiving. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs
Comment by BLUEBELL on November 23, 2017 at 11:28am

 Thank you for the big hugs and prayers Luisa. Stay safe on your journey. Thank you Theresa for reminding me that God is always with us. I will be praying for all of us as we get through this one day.

Bluebell

Comment by Luisa Salter on November 23, 2017 at 9:39am
Bluebell big hugs and prayers sent your way!
Big Hugs and prayers to all.
I have been really irritable and emotional all week. Dealing with a lot of stress at work right now and somewhat dreading Thanksgiving. So we’re here, and Teresa’s right it’s just one day. I’m driving up to Bellingham Wa from my home in Eugene OR today, about 7 hours. Hopefully the drive keeps my mind occupied.
Comment by Theresa on November 23, 2017 at 5:40am

So today is Thanksgiving, we will all get through this day and tomorrow will be back to normal, the next hurdle is Christmas.

Its a tough month for me it will be 18 years on 12/14 for my dad and 2 years on 12/19 for my mom and my grandmom on 12/24

Sadly my job is in retail and it occupies me for the entire month, I know its not good to do that, but it helps to be busy.

Everyone have a good day, say a prayer that our moms and other loved ones are watching over us and thank our Lord for everything he has given us. 

I am going to the cemetery I will check in later.

Comment by Theresa on November 23, 2017 at 5:36am

Bluebell you are not alone God is right beside you always.

Comment by Crystal K on November 23, 2017 at 4:45am
Let us all get through the next day and next few weeks... Been replaying videos of my mom all day.. miss her so much. First xmas without her, cant even bear to think about it.
Comment by BLUEBELL on November 22, 2017 at 9:09pm

Again, thank you both for your kind words. I am feeling better already. I do not need much and I am grateful to you both for helping.

Bluebell

 

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