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Theresa
I am hanging in there. The last couple of days have been tearful. I am so grateful I have this group to talk with and my sister to cry with. One of the hardest things for me to deal with is feeling so alone.
It was 2 months April 14th since my Mom passed. I dread my birthday that is coming up soon. Then there will be Mother's day and Mom's birthday June 19th. These are days to be celebrated. But as I said, all I feel is dread.
Bluebell
Bluebell, thank you so much, I had to do the same thing 17 years ago when my dad died.
I hope you are hanging in there, it takes time. Like I said before the first year after my mom passed, I was in a haze, I just couldn't see through the fog.
This year I am sorry to say it hit me harder, but I talking myself through it.
I just keep saying, I know mom when it is my time to come home you will be right there waiting for me....
Theresa
I think it was an excellent idea to get a medication that will make you more comfortable. Anxiety is tough to deal with. I am glad it is already helping you.
Take care,
Bluebell
Nancy, yes I do go to a bereavement class at our church once a month.
Yes I do agree being around others does help
Tanya and Bluebell, I am hanging in there it has been one year and four months, it is really really hard.
Tanya I am sorry about your bf's dad.
I have to be honest, I had to get something from my dr to calm my anxiety. It has helped with that.
I continually keep going over how to live my life without my mom, maybe I don't keep busy enough, but today is my first day off from work and I'm so tired.
We used to go to my moms every Sunday, sometimes I am like mom I hope you know what is going on here.....
It seems surreal sometimes.
Theresa. Thank you for caring. Today is okay, but yesterday was not. I went to an Estate sale with my sister and a couple of her friends. I had to leave and go sit in the car. I felt so sad thinking that this is what is going to happen to Mom's things. I also thought of the time and care that she put into buying those things and how much pleasure they gave her. Since I no longer have her, the closest I can get is her belongings. I do not know how I am going to let them go. But at the same time, I do not have the room to keep it all. And even if I did, that is not what I want. What I really want is her to still be here. And I can not have that. The sense of loss is intense right now. But I will get through this. I just do not know when. I also know I will always miss her. We bonded at my birth and it is a bond that will be forever.
Bluebell
Just wanted to see how everyone is doing, no one has posted
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