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Nancy is right Olive seeing a physician is good, I did also.
I truly believe that God is giving me strength to see me through losing my mom.
I don't know if you read the beginning of my post, my mom died suddenly and unexpectedly from cardiac arrest, I talked to her on the phone one hour prior and she was going to the hospital her stomach did not feel well, our last words from her were ok -you know what hospital, right and I said yes mom I am leaving right away, I was pulling in the hospital and I received a call from an unknown number, it was someone from the hospital stating my mom was in full cardiac arrest. I was blinded, from that point on I was in a haze, walking around like I had no idea what I was doing, do I call the priest do I call the funeral palor, where is her dr, the medical staff walked away like it was just another day for them with the exception of one nurse who said to me "I was talking to your mom and when I turned around her eyes rolled back, she told me it was very peaceful..... really???? Please - that was it I never go to talk to my mom again to tell her I l love her, nothing, I am living with that every day...
Olive, the answer is yes, I have extreme anxiety, I shake, its awful, even though it has been over a year, I did not want to take and SSRI, I practice yoga, it helps, but not enough.
I was wondering if anyone else suffered from this.
I pray it goes away, but as soon as I wake up it starts all over again.
Nancy, what you said is true, my mom was all I had, I miss her everyday and I don't cry everyday anymore, I try not to, just when I need to. But I try to get ahold of myself.
It just feels as though this part of my heart will never heal.
I pray every day that she is watching over me...I have not had any dreams I guess she's just not ready to come to me.
Bluebell, I cried just the same as you, I just kept trying to think how happy she is now and remember the things she used to say to me. Grieve at your own pace, it could be short or long, listen to your body.
To everyone after my mom passed I went to confession, the priest told me God is right beside me. My faith is the only thing that keeps me going. Sure isn't my friends, because they have not gone through a loss so profound as I have, they have no idea.
I am glad I found this site.
Thank you Nancy for commenting and your reassurance.
To Misty and Olive-Hello. I wish we were not a part of group. But we are. For myself, it is not taking away the pain of her loss, but it is helping me feel not so alone. I have family, but it hard to talk to them openly. Because I am the baby of the family, they want to take care of me. I do not want to be taken care of. I just want for us to share our grief and support each other.
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