Hi Mary. I'm not sure how this reply thing works. But I just wanted to say that I don't have any answers. I totally understand the deep ache you feel for your husband. It is hard to do life each day. Hard to start the day without that one person who means so much to you. It's been 10 months for me and I feel the loss more each day. I've lost the joy in my heart. My Neil was so special and filled me with love, happiness and joy. I only am here for my kids as my youngest is 16. But honestly I rather not be here or just stay in bed all day. People say life goes on, indeed it does, but I don't want to participate in it without my Neil. The love of my life. My worst fear was losing him, and it happened. He was only 52. And I'm devestated
I wish I could tell you something inspiring but just know that you are not alone. Sending you peace
Sending you hugs and praying for comfort. I know how you feel and it is a difficult road. I too lost my high school sweetheart 9 months ago. He was 52. What you have described is also how I feel. The only reason I am still here is for my kids. But I too have lost my life partner and so now what is there - except for our kids. I wish you peace and comfort. Mary
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