I don't know if I can go on much longer the pain is so excruciating it's getting harder each day it's coming up on 15 months since my husband passed away from cancer and I am having trouble sleeping and functioning at all I have trouble with what are supposed to be simple everyday tasks and I am getting really fed up with people telling me that time will ease my pain and that I will learn to accept my husbands passing I wont

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My husband passed away a little over a week ago.  I cannot imagine EVER getting over it.  I think maybe someday I will find some new kind of normal where I can maybe exist but right now I am like you are- the pain is so bad and it's so hard to get sleep and go through a normal day.  Worse yet- if you are like me then you have to return to work and go on with things.  My thoughts are with you Pamela- I wish I could send you your love back to you.

Pamela,

It is the same for me.  Have you seen a doctor about your inability to sleep? That does play some small part in your inability to do everyday tasks, and it's one part that you might be able to do something about.

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