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I am coming up on one year 12/19 it seems I am having a hard time. I miss my mom so much, she was all I had.
I miss you mom with all my heart!
hello everyone, I'm having a hard time about my mom, I lost her about 6 years ago to cancer, she was very ill so I have to remember that she is fine now, and she is feeling no pain and happy in heaven....i'm a strong christian i just miss them....I'm doing ok though, it just helps to get the feelings out
I lost my mom to cancer in a months time. My mom and I didn't always get along but I always tried to please her. As I got older, I decided to accept her as she was and to love her unconditionally. I took care of her in her last days. What hurts so much is, I was at peace with the relationship I had with my mom. Before she became sick, we both made amends and i had such a peace about it and for the fact she didn't suffer long. However, one of my older brothers said my mom complained i had upset her everyday she was in rehab. Then another accusation was made that I had spoke harshly to mom while turning her. I'm just at a loss. I don't know how to cope with this. any of you have this happen to you?
Yes Nov and Dec are hard for me also dad died on 12/14, mom died 12/19 and grandmother 12/24
I feel as though God had a reason to take her home at that time.
Some days and night are worse than others, I just can't wait until I dream of her, I think I am asking too many questions instead of just believing it was moms time to go home.
It is really great to have others to talk to here I am glad I found this site.
I just got home from work and cried all the way home.
I just feel like I am at a loss for words.
I have no children, no other family members, so all I do is think about that day over and over in my mind.
Jill, that's exactly right. I am by no means alone and I have wonderful supportive friends, but there is just nothing like your Mother. I fear my first illness without her. I know I sound ridiculous at 39 years old, but I bet you get it. I cringe at the thought of her not being there when I don't feel well. No mother ever wants her child (no matter the age) to feel sick. They bring such comfort. Her asking me how am I until I am better. What she can do to help me. Rubbing my back. Telling me she loves me. All of it. I miss talking to her every day, her support. She was my number one cheerleader! I miss the laughs terribly. Boy did we laugh together. The hole is huge Jill, huge. I so understand where you are coming from. The holidays are so tough. I've decided to fly out west to spend it with my brother. I can't even think of being home without my Mom.
Lindsay (and everyone else who commented) I could have written what you wrote! Kids, husband and pets but I still feel very lonely. The holidays are hard and I feel the apprehension and stress as we enter them. Yet I have to make it nice for my kids while I would rather do nothing.
I think part of my loneliness is not having my mother here to talk to, that connection. That one person always loving you, having your back etc. Nobody can replace that and it is one of the most special connections we had in our life. It has been 2 years since my mom passed and this is something I still struggle with.
So I think I yearn for that close connection we had. But even close friends and family cannot fill that hole. That is why it is so hard. I know my mom wants me to be happy and live a fulfilling life but it is sure hard without her here.
I wish I had a great solution but I don't.
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