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Multiple Losses Group

I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce. Many of us have lost more than one person or event. Come share!

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I've been here before 1 Reply

I just wanted to let everyone know that I've been here, on this website and in this group, before. My name was Pennywyze. I stopped coming to this site because I became busy with writing my first…Continue

Started by Penny Caywood. Last reply by dream moon JO B Jun 16, 2022.

So many losses 5 Replies

I am so depressed. I've had so many losses. My parents, my husband, many cats, now I've moved to an apartment that doesn't feel like a home. No friends, no family, no furniture. What I wouldn't do…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz Nov 17, 2021.

Too many in a short time.

Hey everyone,  since May of 2020 I lost my birth mother with whom I had established a good relationship.  In June my stepmother who raised me passed away. July was a break. August they found my…Continue

Started by Nina M Helme Mar 21, 2021.

Lost dad an wife within a month. 2 Replies

On March 12 my last living hero passed away from lung cancer. He is the greatest man ive ever known. He loved us all unconditionally no matter our mistakes. He was always honest and to the point and…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Penny Feb 7, 2021.

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Comment by Babz Worel on November 7, 2016 at 3:43pm

My sister has only been gone less then a month. I feel like I don't know what I'am doing half the time . I put something down and then I can't seem to find it. I have to make myself do something every day, whether its to do a load of laundry, or sweep the floor. Yesterday the original Steel Magnolia's was on I just happened to turn on the last part of it when Clarissa says Wesser couldn't stay mad at her because she worship the quicksand she walks on and I lost it. I must have cried for a half hour. But I really do believe they are all in a better place. I think we just get recycled.

 Your not crazy I think we all feel that way at some point.

Comment by Copper "Charlie" on August 18, 2016 at 6:53pm

Jessica,

I understand.  I lost my mother on July 13, 2015, and my husband August 13, 2015.  I cannot even compare the two losses.  I barely had time for it to sink in that my mother was gone before my soulmate was gone.  I, too, have grieved more for my husband than my mother.  I love my mother very much, but my husband's loss was devastating!  They were both unexpected.  My heart hurts for you.  I don't think there is anything wrong with the pain being worse with one as compared to the other.  I don't think it means anything bad.  I knew my mother would, in all likelihood, pass away long before I did.  But my husband...no...we were supposed to have another five years. 

Comment by Jeannette Cox on May 25, 2016 at 10:46pm

I'm new on this site. Haven't know where to get  The support I need right now. I lost my 47 year old son to a heroin overdose on February 10th 2016. 6 weeks later I lost my 26 year old grandson to the same thing. I have not been any kind of normal since the first death let alone the second. My son lives with me and we were very close. I was also exceptionally close to my grandson. The problem I'm having right now is that I cannot separate the two. When I think of one immediately thought of the other come rushing in and I feel like I can't get anywhere in my grief process. I know God is getting me through day by day hour by hour but I still feel stuck. I want to move on.

 the second

Comment by Jessica Amber on March 28, 2016 at 8:33pm

I lost my loved ones exactly a month apart. I lost my long time boyfriend January 6th and my father February 6th. I feel so guilty at times because sometimes I feel as though I grieve one more than the other. My only reasoning that I can come up with, as to why I do this is that nature of their deaths. My boyfriend was in a tragic accident and my father took his own life. I feel so awful nonetheless. I miss my dad everyday, and I love him so much; but I find myself crying more over my boyfriend. 

Comment by dream moon JO B on December 3, 2015 at 5:32pm

im so sorry sandra u get sic of sorry i still do 

Comment by sandra on December 3, 2015 at 1:41am

i lost my very best friend and my soul mate now i feel iv'e lost my sparkle too. 

Comment by dream moon JO B on November 25, 2015 at 4:23pm

im so sorry robin

i no u get sic of hearin sorru sorry u do

or 1 thng i h a t e is bean tld 2 gt ovr it i do or its slf pity u cryn 4 ateson i hateee bean tld tht i do 

its misin e 1 it kills me

hw can u gt ovr it we cnt 

Comment by Robin Jone on November 25, 2015 at 9:11am

I have not been on here for a couple of years. I have suffered many losses in my life as well. When I was 8 years old I lost my mom (who was only 35) from a heart attach. At the age of 18 my dad died (47) of bladder cancer. My brother died at the age of 38 (I was 35) when he fell mountain climbing with a friend. I have had many other losses, the worst being on September 3, 2011 I lost my only son, Zach, (23) who while hiking got to close to the edge of a waterfall and fell. My nephew, (26) was shot and killed a couple of years earlier. I do not share all of this for you all to feel sorry for me. I share it because I believe it has been the power of prayer that I am surviving. I know if it was up to me, after I lost my son, I would not be here. I am so very sorry for all of the pain and suffering you all are going through. Sharon, my heart aches for you. Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. One second at a time. You are not alone in your grief. Don't give up. God bless. Robin

Comment by dream moon JO B on September 23, 2015 at 3:49pm

i miss e 1 is its gon i do

im not fealin sorry fr my sefl im not maby i am i dnt no so musg bad loss sise 2012 i feal if im getng punshd i do

its nt slf pity its not im so damgd cpz of loss 2 mush loss

Comment by dream moon JO B on June 28, 2015 at 3:52pm

yea on/off sharon i do 

so sorry 4 yore losses i am sisen my dad died losss non bldty stop u cud say 2 mush its nt slf pity its nt i t told it wz slf pity im aftr bit im not i no wat yore feal i do 

fed up 

pd off

it lst on hear u can rant on iv rant on lot apold fr rant on bit i gt told 2 carry on rant tht wot ths sit is for 

 

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