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Traumatic, Sudden Loss

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Traumatic, Sudden Loss

I have started this group for people who like myself have suddenly, tragically and traumatically lost a loved one.

My mom died 8 weeks ago (August 17, 2009) She had been sick but I did not know the true extent of her illness. Her doctor knew she did not have long and I went to each doctor visit and talked to him at the hospital and he never told me and I do not believe mom knew either. I am not sure.

I found my mom sitting up on her bed and I know I knew she was gone. I still am in deep shock and cry occasionally but only a minute or two. Then I am back to not feeling or feel numb.

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Loss of boyfriend due to motorcycle 3 Replies

Hello everyone, my name is Brittany. I am new to this and not quiet sure how this works. My therapist pointed me in this direction so i thought i would give it a try. I am 24 years old from…Continue

Started by Brittany. Last reply by Denise D Jan 31, 2021.

New to the Group

Hello All-I am a new widow as my husband passed away April 21, 2018 at the age of 49. He suffered a heart attack and had no previous history of any heart conditions nor does it run in his family.  I…Continue

Started by Danielle Wood Aug 2, 2018.

Struggling 2 Replies

Hi. My name is Cristal. I lost the love of my life on July 2nd. He had leukemia and had no idea. I begged him to see a doctor in the months prior to his death but he would not do it. He also suffered…Continue

Started by Cristal. Last reply by Cristal Aug 1, 2018.

My "Little Brother"

Hi Everyone, My name is Carlyn, and I live in the Ft. Lauderdale area. I joined this site because a very dear friend of mine was killed in a hit-and-run accident in May. My friend Rick, whom I called…Continue

Tags: violent, death, loss, sudden, friend

Started by Carlyn Jorgensen Aug 28, 2017.

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Comment by Imed on November 2, 2015 at 8:06am

my girlfriend she was 22 .. i lost her 3 days ago .. she was the most amazing person i ever known .. she got taken away from too soon .. she was texting me when she had the accident and her last text was i love so m she didn t even finish her text .. i feel weird lost and i just can t make sense of this .. why on earth that beautiful sensitive and angelic person got taken away from .. i didn t even have the chance to make her happier .. i don t think i ll never be able to find a girl like her .. yes my tragedy i guess is less horrible that many others .. but still the pain i have now is just unbearable .. in 27 years old this is the first i feel what it is like to suddenly lose someone in a blink of an eye .. i don t know what i am going to do without her .. i just wanted to share my story 

Comment by Copper "Charlie" on October 4, 2015 at 4:19am

My mother passed on very unexpectedly on July 13, 2015.  She went to the hospital and it was pancreatitis.  She was in agony for a week, even with pain meds.  Then, she takes a turn for the worse and we find out it's hemorrhaging.  There's nothing they can do that she would be able to survive.  She was gone.  I got one month to grieve. 

Then, a month to the day, my sweet, sweet husband passed.  Just out of the blue.  There was no indication that anything was wrong until 40 minutes before he died.  He had stage 4 cancer, but he was supposed to have another 5 years.  A rare side effect of the chemo killed him.  It was so sudden.  And I hurt every single day.  There isn't but a few scattered moments that I have any laughter or even smile.  It's like nothing is worth smiling about.  And I know better.  I have two daughters, 18 and 22, who need me and a father who is all alone now.  I have 2 grandsons from my husband's daughters who were very dear to him, and who I love very much.  My eldest grandson and his mother and her boyfriend came this weekend.  He's a very imaginative and active young man.  We had a couple of "shootouts" and I was turned into a Zombie, and then when I was being a "wall" for him to hide behind when having a "shootout" with his mother, she "shot" me and he exacted "revenge".  Then we did a cool little experiment, which he really enjoyed.  But that total of an hour of smiling was surrounded by sobbing.  I just don't want to be around anyone.  I don't care.  I'm so alone in a crowd of people.  And having to see a couple together, loving one another when I feel so very alone...and my soul mate is gone...it hurts so very much!!!!!  I miss my Baby, my Lover, my Shadow...

Comment by Dolly on August 22, 2015 at 7:14pm

thanks for the info on reporting abuse... I looked everywhere in here but the obvious... story of my life lately... going to try to report him/her if the post is still there from him...

Comment by dream moon JO B on August 22, 2015 at 2:14pm

i no its all on chat room on hear

thy evn spamd groupss on hear evn peple blogs post  bean spamd or scamedd

Comment by rachel_micele on August 22, 2015 at 2:06pm

Diana just deleted a bunch end of July. Don't know how often she gets on here. I just submitted something for her.

Comment by dream moon JO B on August 22, 2015 at 10:11am

its all on chat 2 

Comment by Lynn Boyd on August 22, 2015 at 10:11am
I just checked out Jonak. Everything he posted has been removed. I hate trolls...glad they took care of this one.
Comment by Lynn Boyd on August 22, 2015 at 10:06am
Dolly, I see at the bottom of this page there's a link to click "report an issue". It's all the way at the very bottom, it's kind of hard to see. I haven't seen any of these posts but they do sound very offensive and inappropriate for this forum. We need love, support and kindness, not voodoo. Report them as soon as you can.
Comment by Dolly on August 22, 2015 at 8:55am

HELP.. does anyone know how to report someone who is doing bad stuff in here? Somebody is posting really evil stuff in After Death Experiences... about casting death spells.. and in chat some person called Jonak is posting and reposting something suspicious.. how do we BLOCK them and REPORT THEM???

Comment by dream moon JO B on August 18, 2015 at 2:22pm

im sorry 4 evry 1s loss its sad we hear coz of losss 

so sorry ahmed 

danelle 

nicole

sorry fr evry 1s loss

 

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