Dear Angela, I can certainly relate to your feelings. When I go to her house, I have such bittersweet feelings. The pain and sadness of her not being there is heartbreaking, yet when I think about selling her home, it makes me even sadder that she is gone forever.
At 5:21am on September 25, 2015, Bobbi Hornsby said…
I'm so sorry I know the pain I lost my mom little over two months ago and I don't know how to get thru this either.she add 74 I took her home with hospice care for three weeks one day..broke my heart.hang in their
Thank you for your kind note, Angela. I am so very sorry for the loss of your sweet mother. My feelings are so much like yours. My mom was 86 when she passed from brain cancer 4 months ago. I still have nightmares of my mother's suffering during her last weeks. I still cry everyday. I wonder every day if I did the right things for her after she could no longer communicate her wishes. Sometimes I feel I did everything wrong and wonder if there was anything else I could have done to save her. I'm so angry with the hospice facility she was in during her final days that I left them horrible reviews on every online site I could find. They provided the worst care I've ever seen and I wish I never let the hospital transfer her there. I want my mom back so badly. My world has a huge empty spot without her.
Sending hugs and prayers to you!
Nancy
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Dear Angela, I can certainly relate to your feelings. When I go to her house, I have such bittersweet feelings. The pain and sadness of her not being there is heartbreaking, yet when I think about selling her home, it makes me even sadder that she is gone forever.
Sending hugs and prayers to you!
Nancy
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