Good hearing from you. I had sent a friend request around a month ago after reading a post of yours and us having some similarities in our stories. We really did have so little time. For Gary and I every detail was a "someday" waiting to happen. So sad. So unbelievably sad.
Yes, Richard, it is never enough time. He had a seizure 3 days after our wedding while we were on our honeymoon. And my mother had had the exact same kind of cancer, so I knew what road I was on and where it would lead. Despite what all the feel-good people said, I knew we never had much time.
Nancy, I can really relate to you. I met my wife in Jan 2009 and lost her to cancer in April 2015. We were almost never apart. It takes all my energy just to get out of bed in the morning. I sure hope that we all go to a better place so we can be with our loved ones again.
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Hi Nancy,
Good hearing from you. I had sent a friend request around a month ago after reading a post of yours and us having some similarities in our stories. We really did have so little time. For Gary and I every detail was a "someday" waiting to happen. So sad. So unbelievably sad.
Hugs to you as well
Nancy, I can really relate to you. I met my wife in Jan 2009 and lost her to cancer in April 2015. We were almost never apart. It takes all my energy just to get out of bed in the morning. I sure hope that we all go to a better place so we can be with our loved ones again.
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