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Hello everyone, my name is Brittany. I am new to this and not quiet sure how this works. My therapist pointed me in this direction so i thought i would give it a try. I am 24 years old from…Continue
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Hello All-I am a new widow as my husband passed away April 21, 2018 at the age of 49. He suffered a heart attack and had no previous history of any heart conditions nor does it run in his family. I…Continue
Started by Danielle Wood Aug 2, 2018.
Hi. My name is Cristal. I lost the love of my life on July 2nd. He had leukemia and had no idea. I begged him to see a doctor in the months prior to his death but he would not do it. He also suffered…Continue
Started by Cristal. Last reply by Cristal Aug 1, 2018.
Hi Everyone, My name is Carlyn, and I live in the Ft. Lauderdale area. I joined this site because a very dear friend of mine was killed in a hit-and-run accident in May. My friend Rick, whom I called…Continue
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Started by Carlyn Jorgensen Aug 28, 2017.
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i no way u feal sharon sisne dad died in 2012 cry ters non stopp u cud say thn so mush loss
bdays is evn hrdr wen thy hav gon yore thrs so on cud say
xmas bdays dth avrys so on i wish i cud be me agin bt i thngs shess gon i mt lk lk old me bt im not her u cud say
sorrry if im speln runsbhhh so on u cud say
Tears just keep on coming and sometimes I don't even know I'm crying till I feel tears on my face.
Pain ......grief..... disbelief...... shock, I cry in groans so long that it hurts, only to take a quick breath to just groan some more.
Tired... so very worn out so sick of feeling tired, my bed feels the safest place to be.
This journey I am on is soooooo hard to walk
it's been 7 years now, and still I find myself feeling spaced out when special events are drawing near.
I don't find life very interesting now .... I just walk life not live it.
My daughters birthday is coming up on the 22nd July she would have been 24yrs old.... and as it draws nearer I just want to lie on my bed and forget life for awhile.
Do you feel the same or is this just my experience ?
Erin, I am sorry to hear this. When I came home and found my wife I saw immediately that she was gone - I am a funeral director after all and it would have been obvious to anyone. 911 still had me pull her off the bed and start chest compressions. I can remember crying and doing the compressions even though I knew that it was hopeless since it appeared she had died likely a short time after I had left for work that morning. I too feel quite helpless since there is absolutely nothing I can do to bring her back.
Dave, loss of a soulmate is devastating whether you were together only 3 months, 3 years, or 30. Don't listen to people telling you unhelpful crap like that. They may mean well, but they don't really understand how any of us feel.
I lost my boyfriend 5 weeks ago suddenly. Funeral only 10 days ago, and people telling me I shouldn't be grieving as we was only together 3 months, well he was taken from me too soon, but we had a great relationship even if only 3 months but doesn't make the pain any less, I miss my Dave so much. I just wanna be with him. Dave was 40 and I'm 41. Xxxxxxxxxxxxx Miss my number one Geezer so so much.My Dave
To Janet Hunter
I lost my boyfriend of 9 years almost the same way. He died on May 20 in bed. He started choking or couldn't breathe. I knew he died then. I saw him exhale his last breath. When the paramedics got there just like you stilled hoped that I was wrong and maybe they could save him. Now is gone and I need him back in my life. I miss him more than any words can express. When they told me he was gone they said his heart was as big as a basketball. I feel defeated because there is nothing I can do to bring him back. I will never be the same person. I will always carry this sorrow in whatever is left of my shattered heart.
I'm sorry Janet, I lost my husband to a heart attack 6 weeks ago. He was my world too. We didn't have any kids together. Just us and our dog.
I am new to this site. I lost my husband Wil, 11 weeks ago. Massive coronary in our bed. I don't know how to carry on. My world is gone.
so sorrry felcia
my dad died in 2012 nw 2 moreo t fathrs day all i cn do is let ballons off 4 him i cn
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