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Comment by Leila on June 29, 2015 at 11:56pm

Sending hugs to you, Kim! I know I can't say anything that will help. I can only tell you that I often have felt the way you have described. Some days are more difficult than others. I am with you in prayer. I wish so much that we could have our moms back, happy and healthy. I talk to my mom all the time. It seems to help. I feel like she is here with me, watching over me. Your mom is also watching over you.
I'm so sorry that you lost your dear, sweet mother!!!

Comment by Kim L S on June 28, 2015 at 11:35pm

I am missing mom.Today is no different then any other day ,the days are just filled with sadness! It's hard mom trying to live without you bye myside.People don't understand,Matt I think sometimes is the same as the rest of them.I all never be the same ,never.

My mom oh my sweet mother is gone from my life and so many days and all sadness all inside of me.I try and hold my head up ,when people talk I hear but its not ubsorded.I am breathing and my heart is beating and it kills me that thats the way it is.

I so want to hold you in my arms and tell you how much I love my best friend YOU!

Love me-kim

Comment by Julia on June 26, 2015 at 1:35pm

Life will never be the same, unfortunately we have to learn to manage. Seems unfair, I think anger will always reside in all of us.  Keep praying for comfort and peace.

Comment by charity wolf on June 25, 2015 at 8:59pm

I am so sorry Tans...this is a solitary journey for everyone. I understand....love to you

Comment by charity wolf on June 25, 2015 at 8:57pm

Renee;

 I feel as you..I am traumatized by the illness and issues surrounding my Mama's death. Some events play over and over in my mind. I too, have a hard time knowing how to deal with it all. I am hoping that healing and time will help. I hope the same for you...love

Comment by Tans on June 25, 2015 at 5:24pm

Until someone looses a loved one they will not understand what we go through, I had a friend apologise to me after her mom died for the way she expected me to get over my mom's death. I'm a totally different person than what I was I'm lost and I have no idea who I am without her. How are you supposed to grow and be yourself when your best friend isn't here to share it with you.
Now days I talk about what happened and if people don't want to listen they can go and because those who listen don't mind and will be with us. Mom I miss you so much! Hugs

Comment by Tans on June 25, 2015 at 5:18pm

Nancy, yes I have days like that where you switch on the radio and every song reminds me of her or its about missing someone. Most of the time I'm in the car crying my heart out.

Comment by Renee on June 25, 2015 at 4:44pm

I feel kinda the same the things that remind me of my mom I find it hard to enjoy now without her
I also feel the need to discuss how my mom died and the circumstances around it but everyone finds it uncomfortable for me it's traumatic and I feel like I'm going to explode with it all in my mind and heart

Comment by Leila on June 25, 2015 at 4:35pm

Quick question for the group... I have always loved listening to music. I usually have music on throughout my day. My mom had me involved in choir, chorus, piano lessons, flute, and clarinet since I was a small child.
Since my mom passed I can no longer listen to music without crying. Not even the radio in the car or background music in restaurants.
Has anyone else had this issue?

Comment by Leila on June 25, 2015 at 4:28pm

I feel as you do, Renee. My heart goes out to you and to everyone here in this group!!
My mom passed on April 18, just over 2 months ago. Yesterday someone actually said to me that I should be feeling better because 'I had my two months'.
Really?! I couldn't believe the insensitivity of this person. Obviously she never lost someone who meant as much to her as my mom did to me.
I told her that grief has no expiration date.
Honestly, I feel like I'm still at the very beginning of a long, long process. I'm certain I'll never be the same person again. There will always be a hole in my life where Mom should be.
I need to talk about what happened my mom, but I refrain from it because it seems to make others uncomfortable. I am in counseling instead, because I don't want to chase away my family and friends.
I'm thankful for this group. Sending hugs to all...

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