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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 6 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.

Loss of spouse… 3 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

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Comment by George H on April 1, 2015 at 6:33pm
we were also giving Mary morphine through a PICC line she was fairly sedated when she passed and I do understand the loneliness and the emptiness just feel that all the time
Comment by Donna M Dowling-Hall on April 1, 2015 at 6:30pm

For me, saying goodbye didn't really help.  My husband was being kept "comfortable" on a morphine drip.  He was heavily sedated.  I told him not to linger for me, that I was a survivor and I would survive his passing. I told him that I loved him and always will.  I don't know if he heard me.  This was early on Thursday.  He was gone at 10:55 pm.  I am still broken and empty and so very lonely.

Comment by George H on April 1, 2015 at 6:30pm
Donna I list my faith also how could an all loving God let this happen mary was a good woman never was bad to anyone me I could be an ass at time I'm sure not getting it but she was the one who bebeleved
Comment by Donna M Dowling-Hall on April 1, 2015 at 6:21pm

I have lost my faith.  I am still angry with God and blame him. 

 

Comment by George H on April 1, 2015 at 4:45pm
Mary was a true believer she told her daughter that she was right with Christ and she could go anytime myself I'm still searching for answers but I hope then when she closed her eyes for the last time that it was all she expected
Comment by Tildyc on April 1, 2015 at 3:57pm
George, John T and m morgan- Thank you for sharing your opinions/thoughts on the afterlife and where you feel our loved ones may have gone. I was raised by my parents and my mom is very religious. She is a sweet and loving woman my mother and a saint in her own right. And her faith keeps her strong and has helped her through 85 yrs and everything that life throws at you when you live that long. Myself personally – as I've grown older, I've begun questioning everything that I was taught in the church when I was growing up. Ive never been what you would call a devout church goer or religious. But now that my soul mate has "disappeared" I truly feel there is a different answer from what I have been told all this time. I do feel at a gut level that there is an afterlife for us. And I'm sure most of us heard that energy never goes away, it just changes form. That is scientific fact. So it stands to reason that the energy from people who pass must go somewhere. I prefer to call this energy- our spirit/soul. And the first couple weeks that my Mark was gone, I felt his presence. I do not know how to explain it. He showed up mainly in my dreams. But these dreams were like no other dream I've ever had before. They were far beyond just lucid. There was a physical aspect to them somehow. A tingling sensation in my upper body and a voice in my head that woke me up a couple of times. The voice was not my own and I felt it more than I heard it. If that makes any sense. And I know it was Mark's voice. I realize all this sounds strange but I don't know how else to explain it. So plz don't banned me from our site because you guys might think that my cheese is slipping off my cracker. It's something that's been on my mind since Mark went away.

m morgan- what you shared- interests me. It sounds a little complicated but I would like to explore this a little more. I'll do a Internet search on this subject to start. If you have websites or other information to suggest, I'd appreciate it.
Comment by George H on April 1, 2015 at 2:25pm
Thank you Sandy
Comment by Sandy Elaine Norris on April 1, 2015 at 12:57pm

I'm right there with you George. Everyday seems to be a little harder than the next. I wish I could help make your heart lighter.

Comment by George H on April 1, 2015 at 11:54am
just another heart wrenching lonely day don't know what to do seems like it doesn't get easier it seems to get harder and harder darker and darker don't think anyone can ever figure this out
Comment by Sandy Elaine Norris on April 1, 2015 at 6:09am

Uncontrollable sadness, unending loneliness

 

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