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Missing my Son  or  Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.

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Comment by Sandy Hendrix on March 4, 2015 at 10:22am

Oh Denise, I'm so very very sorry to hear of your loss of your son, the circumstances are terrible.  Please know that we are all here with you and understand the awful pain that we are all in from losing our children.  Much love to you. 

Comment by Teresa D. on March 4, 2015 at 6:40am

Denise I'm so sorry you have to join us.   I haven't been in the same situation other than I know what it feels like to lose my son. But I will listen to you, share tears with you, and try to support you. 

 

Comment by Denise on March 4, 2015 at 5:52am
Thank you for inviting me and the nice comments. I lost my only son at age 8 in a car accident and I was driving. I blacked out and ran off the side of the road (maybe not even a mile to our house is even worse). I was not drinking or doing drugs but of course that's the first question everyone asks. I don't do either. I was wondering is there anyone here that has been in the same situation? I have a cousin that their son was in a boating accident and was telling me how she felt but I told her it is terrible for anyone to go through this but she wasn't the one driving that boat. I feel like it is my fault my son is in heaven because I was driving but I have no idea why I blacked out . I'm going through greiving and guilt . It was 5 months ago and right before Halloween and the rest of the holidays of the year :( . This is totally horrible and it's hard just to keep on breathing without him. He was my life. Always with me when not at school and I even told him not long before this happened I would homeschool him so he didn't have to leave me :( . He was healthy,smart,always smiling never met a stranger and active in sports. It's just not fair for him to be in heaven and not me. I should be the one because I've lived my life. I wished I was in the ground right beside him.
Comment by Denise on March 3, 2015 at 9:16pm
Anyone here I'm new?
Comment by Connie K on March 3, 2015 at 5:34pm

Jane - so true. As you know we lost our children one day apart. I am right there with you. Yes time helps us manage the pain better and come to accept but never changes the crushing reality of this pain, the missing, missing, missing. I just want him to come home....

Comment by Jane P on March 3, 2015 at 4:19pm

2 years, three months, 1 day, since you left.

I miss you , Danielle, I really, really miss you.

There is no life without you, you cannot be replaced.

I am empty.

I am broken.

I am sad.

Comment by Jill E on March 2, 2015 at 4:28pm
Thank you! I truly appreciate it. I am going to go get some. I have a Whole Foods right down the street. Hugs!
Comment by Connie K on March 2, 2015 at 4:17pm

Jill I'm sure the stress is affecting you and your  hormones. If it's hormone related you can also get a progesterone cream that works great ( I think it's called Progest). Its all natural and you just rub it in. I used to get it at Whole Foods. I had breast cancer so now I can't take anything to balance my hormones wheee! But the chemo forced me through menopause anyway. I use to use it prior to that. That must have been scary for you

Comment by Jill E on March 2, 2015 at 2:38pm
It sure does. Thank goodness for this site. I don't feel so alone.
Comment by Sandy Hendrix on March 2, 2015 at 1:58pm

Oh Jill, that is good to hear.. I know how bad it can get! I had that issue for a few years, it was beyond bad, I had the biopsy too, that hurts!

It sure feels like we are all alone, doesn't it?

 

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