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Multiple Losses Group

I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce. Many of us have lost more than one person or event. Come share!

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I've been here before 1 Reply

I just wanted to let everyone know that I've been here, on this website and in this group, before. My name was Pennywyze. I stopped coming to this site because I became busy with writing my first…Continue

Started by Penny Caywood. Last reply by dream moon JO B Jun 16, 2022.

So many losses 5 Replies

I am so depressed. I've had so many losses. My parents, my husband, many cats, now I've moved to an apartment that doesn't feel like a home. No friends, no family, no furniture. What I wouldn't do…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz Nov 17, 2021.

Too many in a short time.

Hey everyone,  since May of 2020 I lost my birth mother with whom I had established a good relationship.  In June my stepmother who raised me passed away. July was a break. August they found my…Continue

Started by Nina M Helme Mar 21, 2021.

Lost dad an wife within a month. 2 Replies

On March 12 my last living hero passed away from lung cancer. He is the greatest man ive ever known. He loved us all unconditionally no matter our mistakes. He was always honest and to the point and…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Penny Feb 7, 2021.

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Comment by dream moon JO B on May 6, 2015 at 3:19pm

so sorry misty for yore lossws losses its so not fair

Comment by Misty on May 6, 2015 at 2:36pm
I am new to this site. I lost my baby brother Dec 5 2014 he was 35. I just lost my Mom who was 59 on April 11,2015. Two years ago I lost my mother-in-law and my grandfather. I don't think I will ever feel completely whole. I still have my father and brother. Our family always consisted of the five of us eventhough we have all gotten married and my brothers have children. I could always count on my family and now two are gone and we are broken not complete. My husband is as supportive as he can be but.... I feel like I am closer to my siblings as we are only 2 and 3 years apart in age. I don't think he understands. I need to talk to my Mom and brother. They were my late night phone calls when life seemed overwhelming.
Comment by dream moon JO B on April 20, 2015 at 4:20pm

multi loss is so cruel

Comment by dream moon JO B on February 28, 2015 at 3:59pm

so sorry lynn

i no wn my dad died i wz not person i wz in 2011 i dnt thng i i will ever be person i wz after my dad losson top

its lk if s 1 prest destrukt buton on me

Comment by Lynn on February 28, 2015 at 7:38am

Hi everyone.. I am new to this site and also have lost to many people to count.. I lost my husband 4 years ago right after Valentines day and my brother the year before him. I still feel like I am a walking shell most days. I have three grown boys and tons of animals which are the only things that would make me get out of bed. I made some really horrible decisions when my husband died, I lashed out and didn't care who I hurt in that processes because of the things I did my family stopped talking to me.. I understand why and for the most part I have excepted it, just makes me sad. well I guess I will stop here otherwise I will write a book telling you my entire life story, YOU can't be that bored :)

Comment by dream moon JO B on February 23, 2015 at 4:16pm

so sorry felicia 

i no famley feud thng on my dads famly now me mum is sort of stuk in 1 on her sde now it seams 2 get big famly feuds thy do 

all no is thy will not speak 2 ths1 if th speak 2 ths 1 or if i speak 2 ths 1 thy wnt speak 2 me or if th speak 2 me thy wnt speak 2 ths 1 its so f@@@@@@@king confusng  it is 

famly feod on my dads sde stared befr i wz born thn on on my mums sde stared wn he died thn stared 2 be bit bigr in 2014 wn a very dear ant died in 2014 2014 it did 

all i no i wish i new wt i did wong 

Comment by Felicia Evans on February 23, 2015 at 12:04am
Hi my dad passed away in 2010, our cat Buttons passed away 4 months later. She was 18. My mom passed away on 8/1/14, the day after her 84th birthday. Then our oldest nephew suddenly passed away on 11/28/14, the day after Thanksgiving. He left behind his second wife and 7 kids ranging from age 5-23 years old. It was and still is pretty painful. I'm just taking one day at a time.his older children are having a really hard time with his death. The younger ones are too but they don't show it as much. My nephew and I grew up together as I was only 5 years old when he was born. Plus a couple members of our family have feuding since the funeral and it's keeping us apart. My husband is part of the feud. My sister, my nephew's mother is married to a man who is not my nephew's father and he is obnoxious and is a bully. She divorced my nephew's dad 30 years ago. My husband and my brother in law are both stubborn and neither will apologize to each other. I stay out of it now. I spoke my piece and now I stay out of it. I'm staying in my lane.
Comment by dream moon JO B on February 22, 2015 at 3:45pm

its my dads anvrsy soon 3.3 so i freal so not me again it seams 2 get wors not better person it says it gets easy never had a losss

Comment by Barbara C on February 22, 2015 at 8:13am

Thank you JO B and Gramaokie 

Comment by gramaokie on February 22, 2015 at 7:57am

Barbara:  You've really had a rough few months.  Sorry for the loss of your mother, fiance', and B-I-L.  I was told that grief multiplies exponentially when multiple losses occur.  This is a safe place with folks who have traveled the road. I lost a cousin to cancer in 2007, my sister-in-law/best friend in Dec 2008 (breast cancer), my brother died Mar 2010 (seizure) and my Daddy died May 2010 (renal disease).  My "advice" is to take care of yourself physically and be gently with yourself.  This site is a good place to vent and share your pain.   

 

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